Hey guys,
So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. About 9 months now. And things have been kind of… boring? Well it has been for a while... but never knew what to do. So I am coming to you guys for some advice
My bf john is, a lot older than I am. He is 33 while I am 19. Im into older guys, what can I say. He's pretty much straight up top. He let me top him before, but I found bottoming more enjoyable.
Anyways onto the problems.
One problem that bugs me is that, our sex has pretty much become routine. theres no more spice to it. I grab his dick and toy around with him, then I give him a blow job then he fucks me. Then we move on.
What he normally does when I give him a blowjob, is that he just lays there.. I mean yea he's enjoying it but he doesnt grab my head or face fucks me or nothing. He just lets me do the work.
2nd is that, normally while in bed he wants me to ride him, and I really dont enjoy that position since I dont feel nothing at all. even while taking in his 7 1/2 inch hard on.
3rd, kissing... I love to make out but it seems he doesnt. And I cant really kiss his neck or mess with his ear since he is ticklish. As soon as I go near his neck he starts to laugh or blocks me.
And lastly, he doesn't really like to give blowjobs. I love the feeling but he can never last long. If he ever does start sucking me, its only for like a minute or two.
Now, those are problems I have with him.
Now for mine..
i've given up on masturbating during sex since it takes me forever to cum... I honestly don't understand why it takes forever... my bf tells me I should be happy that I last this long, and I say to myself "yea if I was a top, the bottom would be in full joy". Masturbating just becomes a frustration rather than a pleasure. Been a few times where I was able to cum while he was inside of me. And I feel like part of it is due to the fact that there is no spice in our sex to turn me on to the point where I just cant hold it anymore.
2nd, is there a better way for me to clean myself before anal sex? He bought me a(n) enema, but having to clean it out every time after its use takes a long time and I lose the mood and it ends up not happening. Any products out there you guys would recommend that would be faster?
3rd, need some advice on giving some amazing blowjobs. its been only about 4-6 times where I have gotten him to shoot his load while I blow him. I wanna rock his world with something new.
Need some advice fellas, what should I tell him? I dont want to be rude....
and what advice could you guys gives to me.
Thanks in advance guys!