You are lucky in that you were always able to be yourself.
But I can relate to not having a "dramatic" coming out myself. I didn't make an huge emotional announcement at a family gathering.
What I did was change the status on my myspace page (remember myspace?) to : Gay.
that's how I came out. My reasoning was, it's on the internet for the whole world to see. I wasn't hiding it from anyone.
Now, some of my gay friends think I "cheated" in coming out that way. I don't know. I do understand not being able to relate to folks who had to do it another way.
Now, things were a little awkward for a while after that as I wasn't quite sure who knew or noticed or what. My family never really talked about it after. Maybe they were picking up on my sense of uncomfortability, not so much with my gayness, but in maybe not knowing how to talk about it with them.
I do know my sister saw it and told my mom and that's how my mom found out (but I think she already had suspicions from the time she caught me watching gay porn on the family computer).
I was living with my dad at the time, and I think he kinda had a clue at that point.
Was it a cop out? Maybe. But i'm not one for big dramatic moments and I hate it when things are all about me. I just want to live my life as quietly and drama free as possible.