Well… When I had my first gay sex I wasn't virgin anymore, but I have some advices for you:
1st: Use condom, don't matter who is gonna be the lucky one that will give ya that pleasure. Don't play with your health and life in your first shoot. 2nd: Just a hook-up or a boyfriend, wait until you feel ready, calm and not anxious about the matter, and let it loose when you find someone you're sure that will be kind and nice with you.
My first gay time was with a friend. It was nice and very special, not in a romantic/magical way, but due the fact we like each other a lot.
Both straights at the time, so you can imagine it. A lot of touching, cuddling, kissing and lube (oh god!). Oh, don't forget great doses of patience.
I wish your first experience become something great, something you will feel comfortable and proud.
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Hugs!
xoxo.