I personally think it's incredibly hot. Based on what bearbearbear said above, I actually do agree with them. I resonate with the younger man he's talking about – there's something about adult men that  can counter-balance your own emotions that can be very safe-feeling.

Never have yet to parents, but I think I came out online on Facebook during high school.. Sometime when I was 16. Then in college, I felt more comfortable with my sexuality and didn't need to "come out" anymore, was just myself.