and I dont have a problem and I havent fallen into the categories of their RUDE demands, but I feel I need to vent in a public forum manner.  I ALWAYS see on the main page and really ANY page with YOUR ACCOUNT WILL BE DELTED AND BANNED IF YOU DONT (fill in the blank RULE)!  I feel like this place is a Nazi dictatorship.  Dont get me wrong, I think the website as a forum for gay people is great and perfect for exchanging information, but the manner and guide lines are a bit TOO MUCH!  Because it is all demands and not worded with any consideration or respect for the people using this website.  Its sad, because people have to use this website for the service it provides, but I feel like a much more NORMAL (well mannered) website would be MUCH BETTER suited to show respect to the people.  And there are many regular torrent sites that do not threaten their users and members.  This site needs to step back and realize that being gay comes with a lot of issues and problems and often people being rude to homosexuals in general, that a site run for gay people should not be negative to its audience.  At the end of the day I dont want to be using a site that is talking down to me and threatening me because really, in any given day homosexuals dont want to have to deal with ANOTHER issue or 'guide line'.
Treat people with respect.