Hope everyone has a good start to the week
hugs and spanx
James
Hope everyone has a good start to the week
hugs and spanx
James
:thankyou: for sharing, these are GREAT!
IT PAYS TO GET A SECOND OPINION
Wooden Leg Insurance
A man and his wife, moved back home to Missouri, from Texas. The husband had a wooden leg, and to insure it back in Texas, it cost them $2000 per year!
When they arrived in Missouri, they went to an insurance agency to see how much it would cost to insure his wooden leg.
The agent looked it up on the computer and said:Â '$39.' The husband was shocked and asked why it was so cheap here in Missouri to insure it, because it cost him $2000 in Texas!
The insurance agent turned his computer screen to the couple and said, Well, here it is on the screen, it says: Any wooden structure, with a sprinkler system above it, is $39… You just have to know how to describe it!'
I bet you could tan tail real well! among other things ….. >:D
This is Part One Only - More To Come
This particular piece is subjective in that it is based on those relationships that are Dad/Son and practice real domestic discipline. You may be very surprised to learn but there are many real Dads and Boys out there in these real relationships. This has been written from physical and emotional reality, all I have tried to do is describe the emotions, process and physical aspects in a manner that is not over the top or fantasy. Enjoy.
Introduction
There are many style of relationship in the male to male spanking venue, such as Teacher and Pupil, Uncle and Nephew or indeed just friends spanking one another for fun. It is also extremely important to note that male to male spanking is not exclusive to same gender partners and indeed many straight or bi-sexual men enjoy spanking with other men without the need for sexual gratification. Some men may perhaps be married or in a long term committed relationship with a member of the opposite sex, and in the majority of cases this is not an issue whether they wish to be spanked by or want to spank other men.
This particular piece of writing is concerned with what many see as one of the most gratifying experience in the male spanking scene, being domestic discipline and specifically in the Dad/Boy role. The reason I use Dad/Boy as opposed to Dad/Son (While being both is entirely possible) is to emphasize the fact that most men whom desire the role of spankee in this relationship are indeed boys. A boy in this sense is any spankee, regardless of age height or any other physical attributes that knows he needs discipline from a firm handed man and in this case one who can act as a father figure, in essence his Dad. These Boys are not ill, and nor is there anything wrong with them, put simply they desire discipline not simply as punishment, but because they recognize a need in themselves and they know discipline is good for them. In some cases immaturity plays a part here, again perfectly understandable and Dads knows how to both nurture and deal with immature boys when they are naughty.
It is true that all boys are Naughty, at some point they will break one of Dads rules, disobey him or get up to other mischief he knows is wrong and of course Dad must take his boy in hand and administer effective punishment. Corporal punishment (which includes spanking) is by far the most practiced form of discipline and yet before we even discuss physical chastisement there are matters of equal importance that go hand in hand when it comes to tending to his bottom. Corporal punishment is very suited to boy’s bottoms.
Clothing
What does it matter what he wears for spankings?
It matters a great deal, both from a preparation and emotional perspective. A boy permitted to wear his standard slacks or even his jeans for punishment will feel quite grown up and of course Dad has all those buttons or zips to deal with, before removing the belt that holds them up and then finally lowering them.
If possible it is best to keep the boy in shorts, these can be of the popular casual variety, there is no need for anything special such as ‘school shorts’ unless Dad has something specific in mind. Regardless of taste the shorts must be elasticated no buttons or zip as if you have a boy over your lap they are easy to take down in that position without fumbling around at zips or buttons. Some Dads prefer to take down the boy’s shorts before spanking him, again nothing wrong with that, but it is more effective and humiliating if they are taken down in the juvenile over the knee position.
If Dad allows the boy to wear long pants or jeans, another solution is to have him change into specific clothing before his spankings, this may be Shorts and Tee or perhaps a Sleeper Suit (with rear flap) or maybe something as simple as sweat pants, it is of course Dads choice.
‘Alright Junior, get to your room and change into your spanking kit’
These words or similar are sure to get his attention as well as creating a flushed face.
Preperation
At this point the naughty boy has changed and is ready to be spanked, well wishful thinking Son! Take your time, there is no hurry, a spanking should be remembered and not just from the pain in his bottom but emotionally too.
If you intend on taking his shorts down while he is over your lap, give him some immediate thinking time, lead him to a corner (or wall will suffice) either by his ear or arm and stand him there. Before you leave, give him some hard stinging swats. On the other hand if his shorts are coming down before he goes over your knees, then again take him to the corner, but first of all take his shorts down, in this way he will feel very juvenile being led to a corner with his shorts at his knees or ankles. Administer swats. The advantage here is that when you call him to you, he must come to you in the same humiliating way.
It is also recommended that a good sturdy chair, preferably armless and straight backed be at hand for his spankings or a stool. Not only does it provide comfort to Dad and stability for Junior, but it can be interesting watching the boy place it where you decide (especially if his shorts are down already).
If you are taking the naughty boys shorts or underpants down over your lap, then it’s time to begin his spanking, if it is to be bare from the start then it’s time to strip those undies down.
Again take your time; he will be very embarrassed when he feels your fingers peeling down his underpants. Take them down to just below his knees, and have a good look at him. You should see a naughty boy standing in front of you with shorts at his ankles and underwear around his knees. Perfect.
Pics for Sunday morning - I hope some of you spend time over the knee today - does you good dont you know?
Though personally I believe that on Sundays the hairbrush should be banned
Love it!
Havent seen that sign before!
But I do had a tee shirt that says the same thing! :cheers:
Na bro you are neither of these, but a cool leatherbear …. yup cool!
That's enough ego massaging from me!
I am sure we corrosponded from time to time, I definately recongise your nick
I tried this last year on GT.ru and made a mess of it, because I had way too much personal crap going on to be effective, but that has changed now and trust me follow through and commitment are one of my boundaries, thus the concequence of not doing so involves my bottom and an old antique wooden hairbrush .. which I am in no hurry to be re-acquainted with any time soon! :afr:
I know the spanking SIG here on the forums can be fantastic, lively and interesting but it will take time and patience, and we will get there …..
I agree the community of men here on GT.ru are great, and I mean that from everyone whether member or mod or admin, all seem to really care and
there is a lot of encouragement.
I love vintage clips …. and if all goes well, I have been in contact with someone whom has an amazing stash of Studio 7
on VHS, now when I get them, I'll need to convert them etc ... and it is a large S7 Collection.
The Vintage stuff is way superior to a lot of the studios out there, just now .....
Can't wait to see your vintage collection on the tracker!
:thankyou:
James
I thought I would share this becasue it is something that I feel is often mis-represented!
I guess the first thing question is what is domestic discipline?
The answer is actually quite complex and it will differ from relationship to relationship, but I suppose if you were trying to generalise it, we could say
it is a way that the two partners live life, and one of those partners uses discipline as a method to settle arguments or deal with problems. There is
plenty of text on this and using google you will find a whole lot of material.
Now I will share my thoughts and life within a domestic disciplinary relationship with spanking:
Number one, the relationship is king, it always comes first, the discipline aspect is an element of the relationship but not the main foundation, and that
is extremely important.
Secondly we are a normal couple in every sense, we enjoy each others company, and all the nice things that go with a real relationship. My partner never
demands, orders me around or treats me badly, we love one another. The difference is that he always gets the last say and that is cool with me, because I am narturally quite a submmissive guy and he is dominant, so it works well for us.
Thirdly spanking can be very sexy for us and a lot of fun too, and I love those so much, it is so sexy, relaxing and amazingly wonderful.
I just wanted to point out the basics above to illustrate that because we enjoy spanking and employ discipline in our relationship we are in actual fact a normal couple and a very happy couple.
So what about the discipline?
Again you will find this is going to be different for each couple and it will depend a great deal on their thoughts, needs and indeed wants, no couple in any relationship does exactly the same things as a another, if that was the case life would be very dull!
So I will explain how it works with us and I dont feel embaressed by it, infact I embrace it.
So here we go, firstly we use three type of spanking, the first as I have said is fun .. okay lots of fun and the second is used for discipline purposes. I wont go to deep into this, but we have house rules and I have boundaries. The house rules are there to avoid frustration and arguments and my boundaries are in place to help focus me on important goals or challanges and they change, they change because I change, its quite simple. If I break a house rule or cross one of my boundaries then without exception I will receive a discipline spanking, there is never a let off and that in a way comes down to our personalities because if I was let off, it would take away a certain amount of dependability and in a sense I would feel cheated, so that never happens.
If I am to receive a discipline spanking it happens ALWAYS in private and as soon as possible. Again I wont go into too much detail, because reality is that again these type of spankings all differ from relationship to relationship, for us though we sit on the sofa and discuss why I am to be disciplined, what brought it on and how to avoid it in the future. That can take a lot of time, because we always hug and discuss it thoroughly. When that has been done, then its time for my spanking, and being honest at this point I always have a huge erection, which is aslo quite normal
I'll take a shower, and put on sweats and a tee shirt and go to my parter whom has while I was preparing myself placed the straight backed spanking chair in the middle of the room, he will be sitting there waiting and I will approach and stand by his side. He will very briefly and gently explain why I am getting spanked before taking down my sweats and briefs (all my spankings are bare bottomed) and then he will simply guide me over his lap.
He will be very aware of my erection on his thigh, but that doesnt last too long, because a real spanking soon has it disapear and thats what happens I get a really long hard spanking and end up with a very red and hot bottom. Again I am not going to describe in too much detail, anyway I sometimes tear up and sob and now you might be thinking thats plain crazy or maybe abusive. Actually its neither the tears have nothing whatever to do with my bottom, or the slaps of his hand, paddle or hairbrush, rather they are emotional. Putting it simply I need them, I am sure Dr Spock would have a lot of insight to that, but you know what, anayzing emotions is complex and frankly I wouldnt want that ever!
Once its all over … well now that is something extremely private!!!!!Â
The third type of spanking is difficult to explain because I think the dynamics are unique to each individual, some people call them reiview sessions or maintenance spankings, but I dont quite believe these words are appropriate, they could be used for those purposes but I think personally that brings elements of roleplay into the relationship which is more than cool if thats what you want, but not for us. I just get a monthly spanking out of the blue which is very similar to a discipline one but only involves my partners bare hand on my bottom, the difference with this is, that well, my erection doesnt go away! Anyway an out of the blue spanking brings a lot of spice into play!!!! >:D
So there you have it, some pretty open and private thoughts, not shared before!
Hey you naughty Tops and Bottom Boys,
Whats Happening huh?
Why not Say Hello to everyone in the Spanking SIG?
I'll Start - HELLO!!!! Â My name is JJ and I am an ******, Strike that!
Ummm My Name is JJ (jeez Saturdays I should be in bed, or getting spanked)
Where was I?
I remember …. hello, JJ here weclome to the spanking SIG, and please say Hi to everyone here, lets have some fun, discussion and debate.  A forum is a sure way to express your thoughts and feelings and share knowledge and opinion.  I am looking forward to that so please feel free to contribute and say Hi!
:thankyou:
hugsssssssszzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
JJ
I will seek and find you,
I will take you to bed and have my way with you,
I will make you ache, shake and sweat until you moan and groan,
I will make you beg for mercy, beg for me to stop,
I will exhaust you to the point that you will be relieved when I'm finished with you,
And when I am finished, you will be weak for days.
All my love,
The Flu! :puke: