Posts made by hozehound

24%  Lost points for things that just don't interest me… 

Vers here.  Usually start out top and then just go where the mood takes us…

I'm seriously big into guys in underwear.  I love to see the big bulge and maybe the outline of the head.  I also like seeing the fabric stretched over a hot bubble butt or when it folds into a guy's butt-crack.  I'm always right there when a bar or club has an underwear party!  I'm not a big fan of the looser boxers, but I do like the tight boxer-briefs.  Jockstraps were mentioned too and I love them also!

I'm not against socks, but socks and feet don't do much for me.  Ironically, I like to keep my socks on when I have sex but that's because I have permanently cold feet.  I remember one time a guy complained so I took off the socks and then he complained about my cold feet.  I laughed and told him he can't have it both ways!

I identify as "gay", but I see that as a "verbal shorthand" primarily.  It tells other guys that if they want to cruise me I won't react with hostility.  I hope that it tells women that if they're interested in a physical relationship with me (how I flatter myself here!) that it's pretty unlikely, but not impossible.  There have been and very occasionally are "special cases"…    As an aside, I agree with previous comments about some people being too eager to "classify" others into overly simplistic categories that fail to allow for all the complexities and nuances of the human condition.  The binary logic of gay/straight, yes/no, 1/0 is simple.  Multiple dimensions all consisting of shades of grey are harder to work with but I think they're usually more accurately descriptive when dealing with life.

I also agree with the previous poster who found sexual attraction to be different and separate to emotional attachment or bonding.  For me, I think this has to do with my upbringing which taught that 'sex' was base and low and dirty while 'love' was pure and spiritual and beautiful.  I don't actually believe in those categorizations (any more) but sex for me is still something qualitatively different from love and friendship.  I find that it's rare to meet someone with whom I have both a good emotional connection and a good sexual connection.  It seems that the emotional connections (usually friendships) last, but the sexual interest lessens over time.