Posts made by hanzo2000z

I get excited with these new findings, but I'm also kind of scared of it.. I hope it doesn't carry anything bad like the T-virus in Resident Evil  ;D

Hey guys,

I guess it could work, I know a group of 3 guys in a relationship and living together here in Taiwan, and they are very happy. It's quite rare because jealousy is a natural instinct, not to mention it's even more complicated to gays because apparently sexual domination and seed spreading instincts are also present in our subconscious.

I know for a fact that they started with just 2, then they grow too close for too long (ppl here call it "becoming a family member"), so they started looking for a third. I'm sure one of them came up with the idea first, normally this would probably cause chaos in a relationship, but the other guy was so nice and laid back, so he probably just accepted it.

eventually they found the 3rd guy which both of them like and got together. the 3rd guy was more fond of the 1st guy at first if i didn't remember wrong, but the super nice laid back guy are being very supportive and now they're all "equal" in the relationship.

however, i think before anyone look into 3 guys relationship.. you must first understand open relationship. because a good open relationship is build on trust and communication. without that, it would just fail. these 3 guys invites others to have safe-fun together as well.

this is one of the good example. there is another group i know of here. but it was quite nasty. basically it was 2 older guys and a young dude who was in love with one of them. lots of lying and stuff there.. but eventually the young dude broke off, knowing he got screwed big time.

I'm not sure what's gay life outside of taiwan like, but apparently it's a way of life that people cheats here. sex comes too easy here and we came up with a rule of  'don't ask don't tell' to maintain a relationship.. which is why most relationships don't last here, cos lies doesn't last.

to me, anything is possible, as long as you're honest and care for one another. trust is important in any form of relationship.