Thanks! Great advice!

I've always wanted to ride (and spent a lot of time trying to get it right) and my partner and I find it is a turn on for us.

However, as the bottom, I find I can't get the positioning right. I feel like I might be doing something wrong. I've had this problem with a few of my partners in the past as well.

The common complaint is that I'm not at the right angle or I'm too tight to let him in. Note: This is after some serious warming up with plugs, toys and lube! Has anyone else struggled with this position as a top or a bottom? Anyone very successful with this position or can offer suggestions on how it works best for them? Thanks in advance!