When it comes to the issue of sexuality and gender I think it is within the realms of possibility that there are going to be loads of people who have what ever feelings they have whether they be transgender or anything else.
Personally I am a man in a mans body. I call myself Gay so that the rest of the world and the morons who like to put me into a catagory can do so. To me I simply can only fall in love and be in love with another man.
I am versatile not because i like playing husband and wife on differing occasions, but because i like the feeling that this type of sex gives me. ONe night I like to fuck, others i like my partner to really give me one.
It is far too easy in this world to make assumptions about the human condition. To be completely frank I am so glad that the old stereotype of gay men wanting a gay male wife are dead and gone in general because wheni came out i neither wanted to be a husband or a wife. Then again each to their own; we have managed to liberate ourselves somewhat.
There are many people who believe that they are the wrong sex and If a man thought we was a woman trapped ina mans body he would probably not want to call himself gay.
The soone we stop trying to pigeon hole people and just letting us develop in any way our souls are destined to go, the sooner we'll be free from all kinds of prejudice.
There is a south american tribe, the name of which i cannot remember who's population have the highest incidence of hermaphroditism in the world. In their culture they accept hermaphrodites completely and allow them to decide for themselves if they want to be male or female. so much so that there are those who are male one day and suddenly feel female the next and their community accept this totally. In the west we have had the disaster where at birth doctors have decided to chop off the wrong bits only to end up with people who when they reach pubity were destined to be the opposite sex.