Thanks guys, I think gaydar is a bit to sex orientated, A bit of romance works a treat.
Sex is always better with someone you love. I just joined luvmatch.org, I will let you know how the online dating goes. Thank you for your replies. John xxxx

Has anyone tried online dating, Im tempted to join luvmatch.org because a friend recommended their website, I am quite shy when meeting people for the first time, any tips please.