A long time ago if you'd ask me that, when I was younger and unsure I'd likely say yes but now that I'm more comfortable with who I am as a gay person, I'd say no. Even if I had to relieve all my painful, violent and uncomfortable interactions with people, I'd still stay gay. Of course I wish it'd be easier for us to meet or be more free but even the heteros have their issues that I wouldn't want for the world.

I honestly don't know how some people just use spit. It dries up so fast and can get sticky. Been there done that but wasn't fun. If it's a quickie (like real quick) then lots of rimming and yeah messy blow job could get you in and out but not for the long haul.