I agree with the above post although its kind of old (a month or so) you should raise the child like the other children. If there is a male and female influence in the child's life then he will naturally stray where he is most comfortable. I'd keep in mind that he is effeminate and maybe a bit more sensitive but other than that you'd raise him just like any other child.

As the boy would grow I would ensure he was aware of the importance of being yourself eventhough you may encounter people who would have more conservative values or old fashioned ways.

I do not currently have children but its not something to hide. One of my straight friends has a 4 year old child with his fiance and she comes over with them to visit me and my man… they just act like they usually do, introducing their friends to their child and showing her we are just like any other couple.

Should be brought up kind of like the topic of sex... as it comes up, no pressure, no hiding. I'd say to anyone with children to just be yourself and don't worry so much about it.