@swansea1960 Yes, it would be fair!

I can only agree to that! Best advice ever:
@brianboru72:

When I came out it was to my closest friends first. They were the ones who gave me the support and built my confidence so I could come out to my parents- mom first, then dad. Then my brother.

It can be different depending on who you feel closest to. Go with someone who you feel accepts you for who you are. Once you've got someone on your side, it gets easier.