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@pkfegroup:

Here's the thing.  The best pieces of advice that I can give you are:

First - You can't change his family or how he feels about his family.  If his mom wants to get back in touch, then she knows how to dial a phone or write a letter/email/whatever.  If she is doing it through his sister/her daughter, then she isn't really ready.  It is a good sign that she's evolving on the issue.  And your bf will do what he needs to do for his own sanity.

Second - You can sit down and tell your bf how you feel.  (a) that you are mindful that you lost your dad and it had an emotional impact on you; and (b) you support him in whatever he decides is best; and you won't bring it up again or nag him.

She doesn't have his number since they haven't spoken in so long, nor an address of any sort.

Well my ex had a foot fetish, but he was always too nervous to do anything with it, I always told him to do what he wanted. Very rarely would he kiss my foot or my toes, but he seemed to love it when he did.

I am the top in the relationship, but I love to use toys on my partner. He has two toys…both are just plain old dildos one being about 7.5 inches long 5 inches around and the other being about 10 inches long and 7 inches long. He hasn't let me use the big one on him yet because he thinks I will go too rough lol.

I wouldn't say I nag him, I have only brought it up a couple of times and all I told him to do was to think about it. Don't just throw the thought away, make sure that you are okay with how things are.

I consider myself gay. In my early teen years 14-17 I considered myself straight until I started to get different feelings and urges that I had never had before.

I am 20 and I don't really care what age my partner is. I have had 5 sexual partners, 3 being between the ages of 33 and 35, and the other two being 21 and 24. My boyfriend is 35 and I do feel that my parents would rather me be dating someone my own age, but it has no affect on me especially because he is just so damn cute!

Now I do think that there is a limit, I don't think I could go past 40 for a relationship, but for just a sexual interaction I definitely could.

Couple of things; don't let him do things that you don't like and same to him. Also, if his cum is making you nauseated then it could be because of his diet. Tell him to eat more fruit, drink more juice, and that could help.

A couple of things that I caught were:

One, him pressuring you when you aren't cumming is not a good thing. Just because you last a while longer doesn't mean that there is an issue. That pressure just makes it more difficult, at least for me it is.

Also, just because you aren't having fun with the things you have done does not mean it will not get better. The first time is always awkward and confusing especially in your case being somewhat older. You have seen all this porn that makes things look so simple, when it actually isn't. You need to take time and talk with your partner. Find what turns him on and what turns you on and sometimes, for example me, what turns him on turns you on meaning when your partner is turned on it turns you on. Just try new things until you find what you like. Good luck.

Most of the Stockydudes videos are good as well as Chubsite

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So a little background first.

My boyfriend, being 35 years old, came out to his mother and the rest of his friends and family at the age of 31. When he came out his whole family accepted him and continued to love him and not care except his mother. His mother was extremely shocked and for the next few months she said things such as "you know, there is a pill to cure you" and other things that were very hurtful to him. Now, 4 years later they have not spoken. She has been texting back and forth with his sister saying that she is sorry and wants him to contact her. She says that she understands now and she just wants him back in her life. I've tried to get him to think about talking to her and just give her one last chance, but he won't do it.

I just hate to see him not have his mother because I lost my father, not because I am gay, but just because he is emotionally distant and wants nothing to do with me.

Anybody have any feedback on this? Advice?

Thanks.

I am more of a passive top only because I enjoy pleasing my man. He is also passive, but he knows what he likes. I don't think either of us would be considered active or aggressive, we both enjoy passion.

You're gonna have to find someone that fits your needs. You need to find someone who isn't as feminine. I hate the term, but you need to find someone who "straight acting" meaning someone who is gay, but you would never know unless he told you.

I am very much a pleaser, if I see that my man is enjoying what I am doing I will keep doing it until he can't handle anymore.

Matt, don't change your look because others don't like it. If you are okay being who you are than that is all that matters. For example, my boyfriend is about 390 pounds right now and I would not change a thing about him. He is sexy and adorable, but he wants to lose weight because he doesn't like the way he looks. I have no issue with that, other than the fact he keeps teasing me saying "you're gonna leave me when I lose all this weight, aren't you?" Not sure if I will still find him as attractive as he is today, but that shouldn't stop him from looking good for himself. We will step across that bridge when we get to it.

I am sure it wouldn't be the easiest thing to deal with, but I think I would just try and be friends with him. It would be better to have him in my life than to just have him as a memory.

So a little background first. I am 20 years old and I am only attracted to bigger guys and when I say bigger I mean generally 300 lbs and over, don't know why just the way I am. Now, I am definitely not bigger is better type of guy, but lets just say my current boyfriend is in the 390s and adorable! Anyways, wanted to know if there are a lot of other guys out there with this similar interest. I am not talking about bears, just chubs.

I myself, being a total top, am generally more masculine than a lot of other gays you'll find. Then on the other hand my boyfriend, being a total bottom, isn't the most masculine guy you will meet, but I don't consider him feminine either.

I have a sort of underwear fetish, I enjoy my guy wearing tight briefs or jockstraps. I also have a thing for blindfolds.

I did for a little while, but most of the guys just want to see my dick…