Posts made by brand929

Reservoir Dogs - 8/10
One of my favorite movies. Great acting, great writing.

@Yutolio:

Rihanna has kinda faded into obscurity, my vote goes to beyonce

Rihanna currently has a song charting at #5 on Billboard. Even back in September of 2016 when you made this comment she had not one, but TWO songs charting in the top 10 on Billboard (placed #7 and #9). You can say a lot of things about Rihanna, but obscure she is not.

Btw, if it wasn’t obvious, my vote goes to Rihanna.

I'm not familiar with the cultures and traditions in Pakistan, so excuse me if I say anything that's unrealistic for your situation.

My recommendation would be along the lines of the person above me. I think you should find anyway you can to become financially independent of your family. That's the first step. If you're not under their roof, you won't be constantly encumbered with talks about marriage. Now I'm going to go ahead and assume that if you don't marry, you'll be seen as the "black sheep" of the family, maybe seen as somewhat of an outcast. This is unfortunate, but you may have to embrace being seen that way if you don't want to get married.

You can't change what people say and think about you, and you shouldn't try. Focus on making your life as happy as possible FOR YOU. If that means not getting married and being an outcast in your family, so be it. At least you won't be living with stress and depression, and you won't be attached so a woman you don't love. Try to connect with new friends who you can confide in, and make those people your new family.

So yeah, try your best to become as independent from your family as you can. I don't know how realistic that is for your situation, but that's the first step I can recommend for you.

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Type these two searches in Google, and you'll may find some useful information:

site:reddit.com make money in pakistan

site:reddit.com financially independent pakistan

And here are two interesting links I came across while browsing the web:

https://www.reddit.com/r/exmuslim/comments/2ihiwm/financially_independent_living_on_my_own_for/

https://www.quora.com/I-am-24-in-Pakistan-and-I-want-to-make-a-lot-of-money-What-should-I-do

https://www.quora.com/What-are-some-of-the-easiest-ways-to-achieve-financial-independence-in-Pakistan

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I hope this helps you out a little bit. I'm sorry you have to go through something like this. Keep your head up, with a strong work ethic and determination I'm sure you can create a life for yourself that'll make you happy. Good luck, buddy! I'm rooting for you!