I usually use http://nifty.org/, but I'm not sure about if they are "extreme."

Ryan Gosling. 100%.

I'd rather date within my race, but I highly doubt that I would ever date a religious/non-secular person.

I do it all the time. Being in high school (over 18) with not much dress code, it's commonplace for guys to wear basketball shorts with loose underwear. Apparently they don't know about compression shorts either. It's pretty nice.

Truecrypt, a 20+ character encryption key and an external hard drive.