It depends, if his body hair keeps me from wanting to be intimate with him, but I really like him - I'd ask him to shave. Body hair can grow back with time, it's not like I'd be asking him to remove a limb or something. But I like body hair on certain men, in certain areas of the body. I don't mind a guy with hairy legs, hairy ass, or arms. The areas I'm particular about are the chest/stomach area and the shoulders and back. I see nothing attractive about a hairy back or shoulders. I wouldn't be interested in a guy with all of that going on regardless of what his body type is. Hair to that extent, is unsightly to me. Chest hair can be quite attractive to me, but only on a toned or muscular chest. Not impressed with "happy trails" or extreme ware-wolves types. I dated a guy whose physical shape wasn't the best - but i genuinely enjoyed his company and personality. We had sex, but most of the time it was initiated by him, because I wasn't physically attracted to him. He wasn't hairy though. Physical attraction for me is important, because without it i'd feel like I'd be wasting both my time and the other person. So it's important to find someone who loves you for you, and you don't have to change anything about yourself just to please them. BUT…small sacrifices are also a good thing to consider, if you truly want to be with that person. JMO