For me, I never gave a fuck about coming out of the closet. At that time, Madonna really helped me with how I perceived myself and how I stood up against the norms of heteronormativity. And to this day, I still don't give a fuck. Either you take me as I am, or you can go fuck yourself. Sexual orientation, gender, race, creed, and so on are very small parts of who you are as a human being, relating to human beings, or in the name of human beings because we're all made up of many collectively as we're all a part of the human race.
But, that's just my two cents. 😀