yeah i agree, we need more context.
it's really nice when I get a retweet or a like or even a reply from a porn star i love (i will say… Cain Marko, Cutler X, Calhoun Sawyer, Eli Hunter, Leo Forte, Pierce Paris, Adam Russo... and some others I can't remember now, have been very sweet on twitter). if i don't get those things from a porn star than I'm not mad about it. Because i can only imagine what their dm's and their @'s look like.
BUT i will also say... if you aren't giving them incentive to "love" you than they won't. ie. $$$
OP i do understand what you're saying (i think) but we just need more context to discuss it.