An independent lone wolf here. Still no plans about "the big coming out" since to me it doesn't matter that much really. I am a free person…so are all of you, it really doesn't matter who do you take to bed with you and it is really not other people business too.

I really love the shroud of mystery around me, yes some might suspect but I don't rly care. If a close friend asks me directly...I might tell him. But those that truly know and care for you don't even need to ask, they just deep down know, and still accept you. If a nosy person with not enough attachments to me asks me they'll get a standard, cold, hard "None of your business"…I wont neither confirm or deny it.

Since you don't see Hetero people saying "Hey I am hetero." **why would we be any different ?**To me equality means everything and I think that we might faster achieve "truly equal" rank once being gay is not that much of a subject anymore, in other words by not trying to force everyone to acknowledge us. I feel that GLBT Parades are more likely flagging us "different" rather than "equal", that's why we should have Love Parades instead with people of all orientations in them, it is ideal way in which everyone could see that we are same as everyone else…love knows no bounds.