I think the Gay Porn industry is full of a mismatch of Gay for pay models especially in the US, excepting the extreme TIM productions with hardcore bareback which are obviously committed gay men. Years ago if a guy bottomed he was considered the "gay" guy but now with sexual attitudes changing so much, also in RL where many claim to be bisexual, that has changed. Paddy O'Brien is a good case in question who almost "reeked" of heterosexuality until the pay was good enough to try being a bottom which I enjoyed as that has often mirrored my own experienced with so called straight or married men hat one day wanted to try being a bottom. Chaosmen I think has a sexy group of of all orientations present with good Flip flops scenes. Sean Cody has a great set of models that soon to be all versatile but I would suspect all are bisexual gay there. Jess and Jarec (yes him that went to jail) are super hot and that new cub Manny. WE have to remember porn is entertainment and these guys do a show and some are fastasy shows with horrendous actin, particularly when a a guy with a high pitched feminine voice says "Don´t touch me I am straight". I think most of us can overlook that if the model is hot and the action as well.

The classic question. I knew something was different with me at 11 but could not put a name on it. Then in my early teens I developed crushes on my schoolfriends but again I was too nervous to come out or telll any one  about my feelings. My sister somehow worked it out but that was between us. It was at 16/17 I took the jump and met and finally had sex with a young married man that was incredibly gentle as he was very well endowed. My debut was pleasant and memorable and then I had no doubts from that day what I wanted and what I was.  

Yes loads of them I even threw and organised them as well!!! It's fun!  :cool2:

To be honest I love them. It somehow very daring to do it. My hunting ground has been in Copenhagen in the Sex Cinemas there. BodyBio I can recommend as it not only for gay men. It's also clean. There are many other places too but I like to do it in an evironment that is relatively safe and comfortable with many places to sit and watch movies, private rooms and refreshment available.  :hehe:

It's very difficult as I had crushes at school  with str8 guys and later in my working life had the same. Yes they knew I was gay and liked male bonding like hugging, sharing the shower etc and it frustrated me massively. Naturallym I want to keep the strong friendships without crossing that line…

Yes it can. Race has never been an issue as my first boyfriend was from Trinidad and I am Nordic. We were happy with each other despite remarks from others. Religion is another matter. I am secular thinking but I have had relationship with a very devout Catholic and he regarded  what we were doing together was sinful. To me it was absurd considering we loved having sex together but it meant a great deal to him.

Ok I have to reply on this as there is another factor. Those that were sero positive that have been taking heir meds cannot infect anyone. In some courts cases in the EU, we just had  one here too, a guy was acquitted as his defense could prove his viral laod was undetectable and had been for along time. That is why many are not so concerned as before. Howverer, you still run the gauntlet of  a load of other infections including syphylis (I got the multi resistant type) and treatment was NOT fun. As adults I guess we have to make informed choices a what we do. Yes the Gay Porn industry does make it clear in their intro about the risks and that shoudld remain so. HIV  developing into the AIDS diagnosis is no fun and I am sure we are many out there who have lost good friends at an all too early age. I love watching bareback porn I can only hope those guys do take care but I suspect not all do. I suspect  many of us can be reckless when having a good time, drinking a good  deal and under the influence of other substances. All we can do is try to exercise some care.