@nf16 +Arago44 +bobo060. Thanks so much for the advice. I'm starting to practice already and will continue now that I know that, with time, I'll be able to reach my goal. Thanks again!

Can anyone give me some tips? I'm desperate to be a good bottom, but for physical reasons I just can't take anything more than a finger up my ass (must be genetic - I have trouble with "in-ear" music buds too, so all my holes seem to be on the tight side.) I've tried small dildos but even with lube and going slow, it still hurts a lot. Any advice?