I have always had a huge fetish for gangbangs. Let me also add that I am a completely versatile guy. When I say I have a fetish for gangbangs, I don't just mean as the bottom, but even as a top. The idea of multiple men using their bodies to pleasure one man is extremely arousing to me.

Now here's the problem. I'm recently dating someone. I really like the man and I love his energy. I don't want to ruin my prospects with him by bringing up orgies and gangbangs, but I do want to explore that side of myself with him.

What is a good way to bring this up?

I don't think I'll ever come out to my Indian parents, partly because financial and emotional independence should come before any of that. I'm working on it, and I'll probably start with my siblings.

I think getting a prostrate massager really helps. My current boyfriend and I have been training our prostrates for over 3 months with a prostrate massager. We have very strong anal orgasms now, and it feels mucking afazing.

In the beginning of anal play, start by getting into the mood. What works for me is that I wear the prostrate massager while I fuck him. And what works for him is to wear it, while he has his legs lifted up and while he's sucking me. I guess the angle just hits his prostrate better.

It's beautiful, you gotta try it.

I'm in the Middle East, and here a lot of the Middle Eastern men simply don't believe in condoms. Whenever I meet expats, there's always a brief discussion about health and PreP and last test and stuff. But the locals just want to bend you over and breed you.

I prefer bareback sex, but condoms until the cure to HIV is ubiquitous.