@emmy:

I know it's hard but, at the end of the day, it is your life and they will just have to take it or leave it. Tell them. You choose the right moment. They might not understand it but they will still love you.

Why is this the right moment?

I just feel I want to come out. I just want to tell them, I just feel sick by this closet. My friends know. Feels just like my parents not part of my life.

Thank you guys. Guys, I'm really afraid this news can destroy them. My mother is a nervous person, it's always provokes severe headache. My father had a problems with alcohol years ago. I really love them. I don't want to hurt them.

Hi guys, what should I do?
I'm 27. My parents 60+. I realyze I want to tell them who I am. They are homophobic, not really but they will never be able to understand, I think. My mother said "Gays need to be healed, they are sick people", my father just don't like it, he can't even understand a travesty in the theater.
My brother is dead, so I am one child in the family.
It would be good if someone could share experience.

@warpaint:

The point that he's making - that he had an abusive ex, doesn't really excuse him from being an asshole.

Agreed.
And I agree with Warpaint about "serious conversation".

Sometimes I think married guys are better because you know what they want.

I had the similar experience but on the opposite side.
@spam17:

You should gradually earn/build back his trust..

True, but actualy you shouldn't do anything for make him trust you, because it can be not really sincrete, it can be harmful. Just be yourself, just tell him the truth. It's important not to make things worse, so honesty is the best policy. Probably he's trying to trust you, he needs time for this.