Hello,

I'm a 22 year old guy from Belgium. I've been seeing a guy for 9 months now, he's 24 and a Muslim.
We haven't had any sexual intercourse or foreplay (not because of the circumcision tho').
He says he finds foreskin and uncircumcised penises unclean and 'I won't get any' from him if I'm uncircumcised.
He doesn't ask me to but more so states his opinion. He says he doesn't ask for sex but we both know sex is an important part of a relationship. He says it doesn't mean I can't give anything to him.
Can any of you give me some advice?
Do you have any experience with a circumcision during adulthood?
How about the loss of sensitivity?

Thank you!

As I said in my reply on the first comment, I never really considered it before because it never really occurred to me or bothered me. I don’t have a preference for my partner to be circumcised or not, and I’ve never been for or against it.
Can I ask you why you aren’t happy with it and why you felt it was a bad decision for you?

Thank you for both pieces of advice!
Since you were circumcised as a child, I imagine it’s hard for you to tell whether or not there is a loss of sensitivity if you never knew anything else, if that makes sense.
I’m aware and also thinking a lot about the fact that I may permanently change a rather important part of my body, something I never would’ve have done just to pleasure myself. I feel like, right now, I’m a bit stuck between making too big of a deal out of it and just doing it because it may not matter that much for me in the end while it does for him.
I didn’t get the feeling or the impression that he was pressuring or forcing me. As I said, it felt like a mere statement “if you are uncircumcised, we won’t have sex”. Of course I’m also being realistic and there’s always a possibility the relationship will not last forever, which is why I also told him that if I do it, I want to do it for myself and not for someone else. I don’t want to have the feeling to say “but I got circumcised for you” may it ever end.
I suppose I’m looking for advice and maybe some motivation as to why I should do it, but of course him and our sexual relationship plays a part in why I would do it as well.

Hello,

I'm a 22 year old guy from Belgium. I've been seeing a guy for 9 months now, he's 24 and a Muslim.
We haven't had any sexual intercourse or foreplay (not because of the circumcision tho').
He says he finds foreskin and uncircumcised penises unclean and 'I won't get any' from him if I'm uncircumcised.
He doesn't ask me to but more so states his opinion. He says he doesn't ask for sex but we both know sex is an important part of a relationship. He says it doesn't mean I can't give anything to him.
Can any of you give me some advice?
Do you have any experience with a circumcision during adulthood?
How about the loss of sensitivity?

Thank you!