i like a good mouth cum shot but generally spit

Mutual jo and mutual oral/69 done til completion by actual gay/bi guys. it's so simple but so very rare.

no, no, NO

@nordicblue:

@phillo:

Oh there's definitely a dismissive, hateful undertone to the wording of many profiles I read. I tend to be into guys 25-45 and my various profiles state that and I don't need to put "ABSOLUTELY NOT INTO GUYS OVER 50" though I get messages from older men a lot. I'm wondering if the nastiness of certain profiles reflects a more widespread degradation in our basic cultural civility? Are the people who put "no fats/no fems" in their profile the same people who will cut you off in traffic, talk on a cell phone while at a register and fail to hold open a door?

That's definitely a non-sequitur there. There is nothing wrong with not liking fat people or effeminate men.  In addition to that, we went from not liking fat or effeminate people to saying they cut you off as if only masculine gay guys don't hold the door open.  There are plenty of raging queens who are judgemental and will behave uncivilized.  I prefer someone who says what they feel instead of hiding behind a veil of political correctness.

I never said there was anything wrong with preferring in shape and masculine men.  I'm not sure what's illogical about assuming a profile written like this - "NO FAT guys, OLD guys, or FEMS. DON'T BOTHER" - belongs to kind of an asshole. I didn't do a study or have research to back it up but it's not crazy talk. It's very clear and easy to understand a profile worded like this - "If interested please be skinny to muscular, under 35 and masculine" - do you see the difference?

Also, I wasn't insulting masculine men I was suggesting that the type of people (masc, fem, white, black, fat, skinny) who write negative profiles might just generally be assholes.

Oh there's definitely a dismissive, hateful undertone to the wording of many profiles I read. I tend to be into guys 25-45 and my various profiles state that and I don't need to put "ABSOLUTELY NOT INTO GUYS OVER 50" though I get messages from older men a lot. I'm wondering if the nastiness of certain profiles reflects a more widespread degradation in our basic cultural civility? Are the people who put "no fats/no fems" in their profile the same people who will cut you off in traffic, talk on a cell phone while at a register and fail to hold open a door?

@rawfisheater:

Though it seems they are just trans woman, opposite of a she male.

He would actually not be a trans woman but a trans man…

"A trans man (also trans-man or transman) is a female-to-male (FtM or FTM) transgender or transsexual person. A trans man is assigned female at birth, and often has a normal female body, but he identifies as male."

Nor would he be a hermaphrodite (intersex)…

"Hermaphrodite was used to describe any person incompatible with the biological gender binary, but has recently been replaced by intersex in medicine. Humans with typical reproductive organs but atypical clitoris/penis are called pseudohermaphrodites in medical literature. Pseudohermaphroditism also refers to a human possessing both the clitoris and testicles. "

I'm in my late 30s and I've seen the Disneyfication of Boston, not relating to hustlers, but generally. I used to go to a porn theater with TWO SCREENS, one gay and one straight, in a location now occupied by a Starbucks and a bank (I think).

In terms of hustlers, I'm sure there are many factors leading to the loss of that scene. Could a major factor be inflation? $20 in 1970 had the same buying power as $122.60 does in 2014.

i got this graphic from another forum i belong to and according this Huff Post article (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/07/14/average-penis-size-american-men_n_3591649.html)
the average US penis size is 5.6" long. 7" would be average in Congo. my dick is just over 7" and I've had the pleasure of comparing it to many other dicks and mine is usually bigger, sometimes the same and rarely smaller.

i like a good mouth cum shot but generally spit

if i'm with a guy who only goes for 15 minutes i'll often hold off…

i'm 5'9 and really skinny…i do tend to like taller/bigger guys. definitely no connection to anal sex for me.