Gay asian
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Informative discussion indeed ??? I have a chat buddy from another site that is of Asian descent and bless his heart he is determined to "marry" a white man and not just any white man but a supermodel type. He is always so unhappy about being rejected but is mired in this destructive cycle beyond all hope or reason.
Your comments have helped me to understand perhaps where his mind is in this matter!!!
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we speak english very well here in our country so that stereotype that asians don't know squat about english is dead wrong
I've lived in Japan and South Korea and I can say for a fact that a lot of people in both countries pretend not to speak english, even though it's taught very early on in school.
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when it comes to me and asians culture is entirely beside the point and central to it.
i've fucked (or been fucked) by every race, body type, age, etc. But most of my boyfriends have been asian, and i'm happy to admit that many asian men happen to have physical characteristics that turn my crank. It's very superficial but also common. It's the physical things that you are attracted to physically which lead to introductions, conversations, and getting nasty.
But culture rears its ugly head, of course. My asian boyfriends have been very americanized. I can't help it…I have to be able to relate fundamentally with a person to date long-term. Of course I'm culturally ignorant, but this isn't a special burden of US citizens. Everyone is culturally ignorant except for really good anthropoligists (who are only just pretending) and those talented and lucky few who actually have lived within different cultures.
At the end of the day, the teeming masses only know what they see surrounding them. Who gives a shit whether they can correctly identify an arbitrarily-decided shape on a map that has been designated "Iraq"? We could train dolphins to do this. I'm not preaching ignorance…i think it's actually important that I know where Iraq is on a map, accepting that this doesn't mean that i know anything about Iraqis.
you see i have this stereotype that foreigners or caucasians in general bring sexually transmitted diseases like aids here in our country… did anyone get offended? and oh yeah.. we speak english very well here in our country so that stereotype that asians don't know squat about english is dead wrong... and oh yeah... that steretype about asians liking caucasians that much only applies to asians who are also butt ugly and jobless with no means for food...
just because some butt ugly lazy asians go for caucasians due to desperation don't mean all of us are very desperate... pls take note that most asians work hard to earn their living....
See? Proof that ignorance hath no stranger. Oh honey, we all work hard to earn our living. I don't really know very many people who aren't, in some way, desperate.
Edited by F00F: removed username
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I like asian, especially Malay race ;D
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I'm an Asian ^-^ and although I don't mind having sexual relations with Caucasian men that don't look half bad, in terms of a long-term relationship, I would still prefer older (but not grampa old) >:D Asian men because they generally tend to be more driven, conscientious, meticulous, etc… perhaps because I'm an overachiever so I tend to expect the same thing from a partner...
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I know the feeling, and you're not the only one. I too am more attracted to older men. This may be largely due to the fact that older men tend to have a brain in their heads and know what they want, rather than trotting around like some immature little twink who is completely care free. I find it easier to engage in an intellectually stimulating conversation with an older man. Perhaps this is something that also drives you to older men?
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I know the feeling, and you're not the only one. I too am more attracted to older men. This may be largely due to the fact that older men tend to have a brain in their heads and know what they want, rather than trotting around like some immature little twink who is completely care free. I find it easier to engage in an intellectually stimulating conversation with an older man. Perhaps this is something that also drives you to older men?
Well, I've learned a lot of things from older men but I think it's their financial stability and level headedness that makes them more preferable partners.
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Interestinggg. I'm actually an Asian American living in the US (California if you wanted to know) and I actually have an asian fetish of sorts. Granted, I'm more attracted towards the buff, gym-going asians, but I've never had a problem finding those where I live (My BF is asian) xP. I actually think that if I had to put the races into some sort of ladder of preference, whites would be near the bottom, if not at the very bottom. Ultimately, it doesn't matter if I find someone I connect with, but if I had to, that's probably how my preferences lie.
I think part of the reason for that was because I lived in a more ethnic part of California where I saw more asians and latinos than anything else. It really wasn't until I got into college that I started to actually see white people bahahaha
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Asian guys are the sexiest in my opinion!
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Well, I'm Asian and have a bad case of hair fetish… so that rules most other Asians out; though the odd hairy Asian have turned my head once or twice.
As for older men, it is intelligence that I find attractive - Someone who has worldly knowledge, his head screwed on, experience and preferably a vocabulary of more than 10 words.
I like men, not boys.Give me a rugged man, an apple and some rope and we are set for a party!
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I have dated both asians and white so i have no preference. People who restrict themselves to a skin type are the typical i want my bf to have the following physical attributes. I find it shallow but i do not like to judge too much. It is their choice.
Bottomline I realised is that each individual soul is colourless and everlasting. What we look and have in hand at the moment does not last. If you believe in a lasting relationship then I say widen your scope and look deeper. If you just want to have some fun and have the energy to hop around, continue to bring you list of ever ending desires out and place them in front of you each time you need someone new.
Just a own opinion. Cheers!
JZ
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its like any other race, there are ugly men and handsome men (or ugly with hot bods)
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As an Asian ,i have to say many many my friend in the usa have told that they are not popular in there .That have sex with an white man is easy but having a serious relationship is difficult.Meanwhile i also have seen many asian men have a romantique relationship with handsome white men. i don't know the reason why some people are easy to find their partners others aren't . But it is true that old white men prefers us than the young.
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Being Asian myself, my preference is totally chub/cub Caucasian men. :love: :hug:
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Being an Asian man living in Asian country, the stereotype as in all stereotype is generally true for some.
Asians' search for people to date are divided into 3 categories:
1. Those who idolized white men.
2. Those who stick with their own race (a.k.a keeping pureblood).
3. Those who are open to any.Asian who idolized white men, and date exclusively with them, are ones who watch too much media. They watch them so much that their idea of an adonis has been shaped into the hunky, tall, white teeth and charming white men with beard. The idea of being good looking has led them to believe that only dating with white men can make them happy. This kind of Asian will fall into the "desperate" Asians who are willing to date (much) older white men. This may also have to do with Asian culture where they perceive people who has white skin are beautiful. Sure white men has different kind of white as Asian's white (milk/porcelain-like kind of white) but it's still white.
Asians are pretty diverse, and they don't always like each other. We have the whiter Asian (chinese, japanese, korean), then we have a darker Asian (malaysian, thai, philippines) and then we also have the darkest Asian (india, arab, some chinese/japanese/korean are born with darker skin). Some of the whiter Asian tend to avoid dating with darker Asian, as again, we are culturally raised to be successful by our family, and darker skin usually equals more outdoor work (which means poor people).
It's all about stereotypes, really. Living in Asian country, I date Asian all the time though I would like to try to date white guys as well.
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im asian and i like white guys
but they dont like me coz im white (not tanned) and half chinese … Zzzzz
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I know many Asian guys, and all of them like dark Indian and Pakistani, Middle Eastern, European and Latino guys. None of them once said he liked another Asian!
I am Middle Eastern and I would only have sex with a chubby-ish Asian, otherwise, no. -
I'm asian and only attracted to white, and some extent japanese with masculine feature…
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I'm an Asian and I have my preferences but if you like/love someone, I think that transcends age or race. Personally, I like my men with dark skin tone.
Beauty is subjective; I'd still go out with someone who has a good personality regardless of their age and physical appearance or skin color.
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Well, I'm Asian and have a bad case of hair fetish… so that rules most other Asians out; though the odd hairy Asian have turned my head once or twice.
As for older men, it is intelligence that I find attractive - Someone who has worldly knowledge, his head screwed on, experience and preferably a vocabulary of more than 10 words.
I like men, not boys.Give me a rugged man, an apple and some rope and we are set for a party!
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I so can relate to this! I also have "a bad case of hair fetish" :cheers:
