How to get good at giving head
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Hi guys, any tips on how to give good head? I like getting blowjobs but honestly only 3 people (random hookups) have given me good head, ever... I've lost contact with them. Been with a few 'objectively hot' guys who were enthusiastic about giving head. They looked great doing it but honestly it didn't feel the tingly kinda good.
I wanna be good at it myself, but I have trouble finding good mentors here in my city. Are there any tips you can give? Any videos in this site? Porn looks good but how can we really tell if it feels good though
Lastly I am uncut and 'big for local sample size.' Being uncut is an anomaly in my country... Is there a difference between sucking cut and uncut guys?
Advice or links would be highly appreciated. Thanks!
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raphjd
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@privateposts I have been told many times that I have given a guy the best head of his life, but like any art form, it takes practice and dedication. You have to love it to be really good, and you have to love giving pleasure. The most important thing to remember is that there is not one way of giving good head. Every man is different, so every blow job is different. While you are sucking a guy, pay close attention to what makes him gasp or groan or his cock to twitch or grow harder. Keep those things in your bag of tricks for that guy. Change it up. Doing the same thing over and over (except during that final frantic climb to orgasm) can become tedious. Suck him, lick him, drop down to his balls, his taint, his inner thighs, his asshole, then back to the cock. Let him know through your actions that every part of him is sexy to you, and that will enhance his pleasure. Explore every part of his penis. Suck the head, then halfway down the shaft, then deep throat, then back again. Keep paying close attention to his reactions and taking mental notes. And just have fun exploring him. Taste and touch and look at and smell the individual parts of him. Make it a whole sensory experience. And it doesn't hurt to once or twice stop and tell him how amazing his cock is. And let yourself explore your own bodily tools and what you can do with them, your lips, your tongue, your throat, your soft palate. most guys go nuts when you trap the head of their dicks between your tongue and your soft palate and gently lick the underside of the head while subtly moving your head to rub the upper part on your soft palate. Use the flat of your tongue, the tip of your tongue, the end curl of your tongue the back of your tongue. You have tools. Use them. You can also simply ask a man what he does and doesn't like during a blow job. As you get better, you willl have tricks he is unaware of, but talking is always a good start.
If you struggle with deep throating and swallowing, two popular techniques, you can train yourself to get better by gradually pushing your limits. Much of it is mind over matter. Your gag reflex kicks in as a natural way to clear your air passages, but if you tell yourself there is no danger of suffocating, you can get your gag reflex to listen to you and not to the obstruction in your throat. Most importantly, love and pleasure your partner freely and unabashedly, and have fun. -
@Candidude This is soo right.
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@Candidude thanks for the tip. Very useful
