How did u know u were top or bottom?
So I've mostly known i prefer to top however as time gone on im leaning towards verse but how did u know u were the top or bottom was it expected by your partner etc?
Although i'm bi i'm a top. Never really was into being a bottom (ok, there's some curiosity to try it once, after seeing the men and women enjoying fucked in the ass by me); not even into sucking dick - but i tried that recently, not that bad, but i can live without it.
So.. Maybe it's genetics too?
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Well, I guess the first time I got fucked and I loved it I realized that I could also be a bottom (I'm very versatile, I'm also a top).
I literally feel nothing exciting when someone is touching, rubbing, fingering, licking etc my asshole, so… yup.
It took me a while to develop a "fetish" for rimming though.
The weird thing is that when I was still a virgin and highly inexperienced, I thought I was definitely going to bottom, but I was probably influenced by the nonsensical stereotype that gay guys bottom for other "straight"/bi guys.
from my earliest memories of porn (str8) I always wanted to be the girl getting fucked. So much so that I was confused and thought for awhile that I wanted to be a girl.:crazy2: But as I learned about gay sex, I never questioned that again.:cool2: I’ve never wanted to top, never even felt an urge to top. And for most of my life my cock never penetrated anyone except for two ex’s that straddled me and rode my cock for a few seconds before pounding my ass. :missio:I was born to bottom. :missio: