How do you know?
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Hi,
I'd like to know, how do you know if a guy is into you or not but he has a girlfriend?
I've met a Personal Trainer at the gym. At first he was nice. He tried to know me and started to talk to me. At the beginning I didn't even noticed him tbh. He helped me during my training without me asking anything. During my training he was always telling me that if I needed help I could just ask him. Not just once or twice but like every 10-20mn.
Then the gym has became empty and the PT came to me and told me "see, the gym is empty, we are alone, just you and me" with a little smile on his face. As I don't understand all things related to flirt I didn't really pay attention but was wondering if he was flirting with me. I changed the subject. We talked a little more about training and we planned to see each other the day after at the gym. He had to help me with my training but I've arrived later than expected and he was angry at some point that he didn't want to help me.
Some days later he was nice again and talked to me. Some days later, he was angry again and I didn't even know why. He asked me if I wanted to participate in his group class but I refused because I couldn't. It would have been a pleasure but I couldn't. Now he doesn't talk to me. He refused to say hello and look at me like a psychopath or he pretends that he doesn't see me.
If I chat with him on the internet he replies but at the gym we are totally strangers and I don't understand his reaction. A neighbor told me that he was his client and the day he stopped training with him the PT started to ignore him. A receptionist girl told me that she had a feeling that he wanted all the clients just for him. I think she was clever because it seems she's right.
I know this question can sound very teenage boy but I'd like to know. Did I do something wrong? Does he like me or not?
I'm lost. I don't know what's going on with him.
I've tried to know why he was acting weird with me but he didn't answer my question.
It's not the 1st time that it happens with me. Another PT in another gym reacted the same way but at least I knew why (I wasn't going to his class anymore and he was angry).A guy told me that he was maybe in the closet and the fact that he said that we were alone at the gym was a hint about what he wanted but tbh I don't know. If he wants a one night stand with me I'm fine with that. If he wants more, well, we will see…
Can someone explain me his reaction?