Having a quarrel with your boyfriend's best female friend
What happens when your boyfriend's best female friend insults you for no justified reason and generally thinks little of you and has expressed this to your boyfriend?
We're talking about a relationship of 6 to 12 monthsand a friendship of about 6 years.
Would you expect your boyfriend not to talk to her until she apologizes, would it not matter for you if he still talked to her daily even though she never said she's sorry and she still believed all the things she said?
I mean, if your companion doesn't support you, who will? I personally expected from him never to talk to her again until she apologized, but to my surprise, he still does talk to her. They have a lot of history, she has helped him in many ways, plus there was a time when they didn't talk because a his ex-bf asked him too, for like 1,5 years, so now he feels guilty about it and doesn't want that to happen again.
But I feel insulted and betrayed by him, I expected him to support me and he didn't. He fought with her many times, but they didn't reach a conclusion and the result is that they still talk..
I have tried to come to terms with it, but it is really frustrating and it hurts like hell. I feel a dinstance growing between us even though he is generally wonderful as a person, looks, brains and attitude and we have so much fun together, but when she calls him I just feel sad and angry.
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Rob and I have many mutual friends and separate friends and I am only too happy to let him have separate friendships. Most of them are not people I care for truly. However, I always have his back and him mine over a friendship ~ always!!!
This IMHO is more a Fag Hag situation than a friend ~ They are a tough bunch to get rid of indeed. As evil as women can get.
Be careful with this but do not tolerate anything less than 100% support from your partner.
I know she totally evil. I do not believe she is his true friend.
Up to now, she hasn't apologized and he hasn't changed his relationship with her. They talk like they used to. It is very annoying and I can't get him to understand how I feel.
I believe in total support when it comes to relationships but he think she is too important for him to give her up but she has insulted me so much.
I love him and I don't want him to give up his friend if she doesn't apologize but I can't stand the thought that my companion is spending time with this evil hag that thinks so little of me.