On the difference of taking a really big one
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Hi, guys
I'm kinda new here, I'm 23 years old and from Turkey. Though I've been with several guys, I've still never been with guy with a huge dick. I think none of them exceeded 7 inches. I really wonder what's the difference of being with a horse hung guy :cheesy2: :cheesy2: Is there limit/ceiling that a dick can go/touch?Can you share your experiences with me if you had?
By the way, sometimes finding a decent guy can take quite days here even if a use apps for it. Gosh, it's tough to live in a Muslim country.
Sorry for my English, i'm still improving
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The size difference depends on how the guy uses it. Some are really brutal in the fucking and unless you've had experience this will make it uncomfortable.
I had a 12 inch think cock; I was playing around with a couple of guys and was sucking on the first guy when I felt the other guy start to play with my ass; he was gentle and I never saw what he had until he was fucking me.
As far as how deep one can go, I am not sure, I have seen fisting videos with the arm far inside.Be careful with apps, I know it is nto easy to meet guys especially living in Turkey, however, most guys on the apps are not always decent. Remember that they are not always going to tell you teh truth, they want, usually, only one thing and will say whatever it takes to get it.
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From my experience, I would say that being fucked by a guy with a very thick dick can hurt if you're tight, but once you're properly warmed up and stretched so you can take it, there is no problem at all.
However, if the guy has a very long dick, it can be problematic. It can easily go in too deep and hit the wall of your colon in a way that could hurt. So then you have to make sure to find a position where it won't do that. But still, it can be very annoying.
So I definitely think that very long dicks are not really a positive thing, but more of a hassle. The thickness is far more important though, and it can feel really great to have a really thick one stretch your ass
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Thank you obras62, i know it's been really hard to learn who lies and who doesn't on the app. But now i can easily seperate them each other. But even if i find someone who's decent, i sometimes can't cope with cultural difference between us. With technology and internet stuff, some people in Turkey started living a modern life like in Europe. Most of people didn't and difference can be shocking. For example, some of the guys i met online didn't call themselves gay if they're top. Anyway it constitutes being a gay in Turkey :crazy2: :crazy2:
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haha not many are gifted my friend.But i don't see what difference does it make having a big cock
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Thank you obras62, i know it's been really hard to learn who lies and who doesn't on the app. But now i can easily seperate them each other. But even if i find someone who's decent, i sometimes can't cope with cultural difference between us. With technology and internet stuff, some people in Turkey started living a modern life like in Europe. Most of people didn't and difference can be shocking. For example, some of the guys i met online didn't call themselves gay if they're top. Anyway it constitutes being a gay in Turkey :crazy2: :crazy2:
I can understand the cultural differences also. I'm an American living in a South American country and have to deal with many differences, though probably not as big as some of the cultural differences for you.
I agree, I hate those that say they're a Top but not gay. -
Speaking as a man who has a very large and thick dick, I can tell you that the bottoms I've fucked have said a large dick is actually more comfortable than getting fucked by a long, thin dick. They said that while a very big dick can stretch them to their limit, it's getting "poked" by a thin one that really hurts. Keep in mind that a man with a big dick is used to opening up tight holes and generally doesn't enjoy hurting his bottom, so the good tops will always take their time and make sure their bottom is having a great experience. That said, if a guy with a monster dick is a jerk or is tripping out on some drug, you could be pushed way beyond your limit – and the internal damage caused can be very serious. I know you're in a rather challenging environment and hunting for sex can be difficult, but my advice would be to reach out to the other BOTTOMS in your area and see if any of them can refer you to a horse-hung, considerate top who will train your ass the way you want most.
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I know when I started getting more active with having a sex life (really just bottoming), that I had some trouble with needing to take a while with foreplay to get to where I could handle getting fucked by someone that was a bit larger.
After a couple years though and actively playing around with various toys, I've found I can get to where I can relax and take in a larger dick without near as much trouble as I used to. To an extent I think there's a bit of apprehension that made it difficult to just relax my hole a bit, whereas now I can look at it as just 'normalish' so it can take just a couple minutes of foreplay to get right into getting fucked hard (which feels a lot more fun than gentle bullshit fucking some guys get into trying).
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From my experience, I would say that being fucked by a guy with a very thick dick can hurt if you're tight, but once you're properly warmed up and stretched so you can take it, there is no problem at all.
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So, you suggest that foreplay is a must?
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Thank you obras62, i know it's been really hard to learn who lies and who doesn't on the app. But now i can easily seperate them each other. But even if i find someone who's decent, i sometimes can't cope with cultural difference between us. With technology and internet stuff, some people in Turkey started living a modern life like in Europe. Most of people didn't and difference can be shocking. For example, some of the guys i met online didn't call themselves gay if they're top. Anyway it constitutes being a gay in Turkey :crazy2: :crazy2:
Just to let you know it isn't just in Turkey that many guys wil not admit that they're gay. In Chile, there are still a lot of guys, who say they're tops but aren't gay too. I find that a bit sad, but I guess I can understand the idea that being gay before was a big problem.
