Tips for anal virgin?
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I've always liked the idea of being fucked. but every time I tried it I just didnt like it.. I think it's the beginning pain and stuff.. Does anyone have tips? I'm thinking of trying maybe a dildo first to train myself or something. is this a good idea?
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my advice is u must to use condum with water base for lubrican
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Use a small dildo for sure, or even a small butt plug. If you don't want to buy them for now, fingers are your best friends (but make sure nails aren't sharp!).
Don't hold back on the amount of lube either. As much as you want/need!
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u can try with small dildo
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I agree, I was in the same situation too, fingers and then dildo helped me a lot. Butt plugs are very good for that too, but you should wear them for longer periods of time if you really want to use the true purpose of it
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well, i was in the same situation too 2 years ago.It is really difficult in the beginning, and the sensation is weird, but you will eventually like it.Make sure you use your fingers for starters, and use a looooot of lube before and during sex.
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Are you worried more about the pain or the possible mess?
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dont worry
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Have a dildo and practice a lot! It's great and fun!
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training can be fun, and you should definitely see what feels good. don't start with something big, take your time.
when you're getting fucked, the first five seconds is everything, so, ease onto it and don't let the guy get too carried away too quickly.
when you're going to douche, remember that you have to "evacuate the village before you flood it"; i do either or, tbh. plus, a balanced diet is preferable if you start to enjoy bottoming and adopt it as a preference.
apart from that, enjoy, and stay open minded!
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some guys just aren't into the sensation…you'll either find the guy who makes you want to with him, or by yourself for the matter, or you won't. Not all guys like bottoming...it's about your body and not about "training"
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I hate the feeling of toys. Go for the real thing.
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Here is a little trick I read in a book: Lay on your left side and let him do it while spooning you. The only other way I ever could bottom was if I rode him on top and it still sucked. If you do it on your left side it will feel great. Later after your butt is trained to relax you can try doggie and stuff like that. I haven't bottomed since 20 years ago due to fear of HIV, but I remember that and God it was great. Remember to open the hole up a little bit before he eases into you by really pulling your checks apart. That helps too. Have him finger you first is also a possibility.
Good luck :anal:
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One finger, Two finger, Three finger, Four.
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First of all, relax, please, getting nervous does not help any one, second of all, patience, both you and your guy need it, even more than lube, and in third place, you need lube, if you feel pain, without being nervous, and with patience, add as many lube as needed, it can be done even without lube, is the most delicious feeling of all, the friction, the natural lubrication, there is not better lube (but also risky, always use condom when is a random people, STD's are not funny at all)
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There are some anesthetic gels that can help you with the pain sensation in the early relationships. Try this, it's great, especially if you dont like toys or anal masturbation to do this "initiation".
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I've always liked the idea of being fucked. but every time I tried it I just didnt like it.. I think it's the beginning pain and stuff.. Does anyone have tips? I'm thinking of trying maybe a dildo first to train myself or something. is this a good idea?
Go on E-bay and get something called a "prostate massager" It looks like a T only it is contoured and curvy. It should cost about $10 It goes in fairly easily, and because of its shape, it STAYS in. Aneros makes very expensive versions of these which are frankly identical to the $10 one's, except Aneros wants a minimum of $60 for them.
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just relax
