Is it just me…...
Is it just me or do gay asian men come across as being more sensual? They seem to enjoy the idea body contact before sex much more than western world men. Most guys I have fooled around with are all about going right to my johnson and totally bypass foreplay all together. Maybe I'm just a bad judge of men to hookup with. ;D
Asians to me seem more engaged in the emotional buildup of "making love". Am I crazy or does anyone else see this too?
I love foreplay as long as it is shorter than 10 minutes
CapeCodder last edited by
I fully agree with you Cumeater,
Every Asian guy that I have been with over the years is more about the sensuality as opposed to the sexuality. I have never been in a (hook-up) situation with an Asian guy that has resulted in a quick and non feeling culmination. I think its cultural in the way they are brought up, at least any of the non American guys that I have met. They seem to have strong family values instilled in them from childhood and therefore when it comes to being with someone intimately, they tend to want the emotional ties as well as the physical. This is one of the greatest things about Asian guys, in my opinion. Though I honestly think that almost everything about Asian men is great :cool2:
i've never been with an asian guy to attest to whether or not they more sensual…
but i have noticed this, in porn they have a tendency to seem incredibly bored.
don't get me wrong, i love me some asian man sex. but a lot of the time it's like they're totally uninterested or are holding back.
what ever the reason behind the masking and blurring, with or with out, it's much more fun to watch when they're getting into it.
anybody else, or just me?
juancho last edited by
great sensual pics there.
i'm an asian guy living in asia and i have this to say about the topic on hand: it's just the same as everywhere else (i think). some men are there for the sex and others are there for something more than sex and it just happened that you were there as a means to their end (when they wanted "just sex").
don't get me wrong, i like sex, but i do like a lot of kissing and cuddling and foreplay. in fact, there are nights when i could just go on cuddling, kissing and making out until the next day breaks.
then again, i also have my moments where i just need to get off and i don't want to do it alone. but, yeah, i'm a cuddler and asian. LOL
this is not an advertisement, btw. lol
From all the movies i have seen….i do not agree with what you said.
Asian men to me look like they have no idea what they are doing...and the kissing omg is so bad.
Maybe i haven't watched the right movie but from what i have seen i was not impressed. I hope it's not the same in real life since asian guys are so hot >.<
I think kissing, feeling around and petting is great fun and exciting too, although I can't wait for the main event. I don't think it's right to say one group of men is better or worse at foreplay. It's really up to the guys doing it, Right?!?! Sometimes I kiss and make out without having sex and sometimes we just go for it. Where is that lube?!?! :bsex: And what is foreplay anyway? I'm having it right now with all of you :jaj: so how do you like that? :ghug: :hapgay: :bukkake: Please pass the condoms.
I'm sort of split between B1shounen's and CableguyLive's point of view. For myself personally, generally asians do not tend to "do it" for me sexually. That being said however, there have been acceptions to that rule. Although one thing may be common of one group of people, that does not nescessarily mean that the "majority trend" represents the entire population.
For example… In Asia, eating with chopsticks is "the norm" for lack of a better term, however this does not mean that all Asians eat with chopsticks. Just an example to illustrate my point. There's got to be some Asian videos out there that may have some appeal to you B1shounen... It's just a matter of finding them.
I think my point of view may be "skewed" by the content I like. Most yaoi shows men being way more affectionate than say Hun, TOF or Michael Kirwan(all gay artists). I guess in real life it is up to the individual. I still contend that sensual asians look more engaged than some others. That's not to say they are….they just look that way.
I don't think I can agree. I'm asian and my first blowjob was with a stranger in his car. And my first anal was with another stranger in the woods. After that there was a string of one night stands and fuck buddies. I've never been into romantic love, more casual encounters with guys I think are attractive. I've only recently started dating a guy exclusively, just to try it out.
Edit: sorry for bumping such an old thread, it appeared on my related topics list and I didn't check the dates
I do agree on some level, due to a particular observation - in almost EVERY Asian video I've seen, there is sensual and erotic nipple play, with nipples being stroked, caressed and licked - as someone who enjoys this type of sensual touch, it's something I really enjoy in Asian videos, particularly Japanese ones.
In Western videos sensual nipple play is much rarer, usually a few seconds of licking/sucking at most; and if you search specifically for 'nipple play' the results are generally extreme fetish scenes with tit clamps, pain and stretching.
its also like this in porn!
the long foreplay i think it´s most a japanese thing in thai or chinese porn you don´t see that, when i was otaku i used to download fashion japanese magazines female and male oriented in both cases in the sex special they have complete guides about the steps to follow one by one to have good sex and in all they put the long foreplay
by the way the long foreplay is what made me addicted to Japanese movies, in my private life 2 kisses and then push my head down it´s a turn off
the kisses in gav are strange but i love all that tongue play
the deadfish attitude it´s a japanese thing too, in str8 japanese porn you can see the same attitude where the male/top have to do all the work, i once read a blog of an american girl who studied in japan she said that the first Japanese that she date, He was very uncomfortable with the fact that she was active in bed so they have to take turns to be active and he said he felt like he was in a homosexual relationship
Totally agree! I think in (Eastern) Asian culture, chemistry is highly prioritised. When I was in Korea, many guys on gay apps wanted to meet for coffee or just chat before jumping straight into sex and even when we did have sex, they wanted to cuddle and kiss for a long time. Sometimes we didn't even get to the anal part but it was still great!
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I couldn't tell, I've been with two and for some reason I have atracted them a lot (I'm not saying anything, I don't think much of myself in that regard, it just happened, I'm caucasian so there is some logic there), they are smart, some of them, now when it comes to sensuality, I'm not so sure, the first one was a bit showy, we weren't being filmed in some porn, I had to ask him to tone it down, the second one was OK so as I said, I couldn't tell.