Do you feel disgusted after you masturbate to porn?
-
It seems like every time I masturbate to porn, I feel a sense of disgust after I climax.
It's like this:
I'm horny and I want to watch some porn. My emotions are positive as I start masturbating…I'm enjoying myself...It feels good...I continue to feel great until I climax. After cumming, my feelings/thoughts turn completely 180 degrees...I feel disgusted, ashamed, dirty, like I did something wrong.Anybody else feel this way or used to? How do you stop these negative feelings?
-
I had once those kinda feelings, but it stopped happening after a while. I really can't say if there is a way to make you feel that way.
-
I don't feel disgusted or ashamed after masturbating but I dont' feel as satisfied as I used to.
I like to watch porn that reminds me of my past sexual experiences because while I jack off and watch porn I love to think about sucking cock and all the guys that I've sucked off in the past.
As I get hornier and hornier my thoughts go from the guys I used to suck off to a need of going out and sucking cock right then and there.
I start fantasizing about going to local cruise spots and sucking off complete strangers and letting groups of guys use me like a complete whore and filling my ass and mouth with cum.
A lot of times these thoughts will overpower me and the need to suck cock will become so great that I'll just go out and suck off any cock I can get my lips around but on nights I don't go out and just continue watching the porn until I cum I feel that I missed out on something because I didn't have a cock and a big load of cum in my mouth as I came.
-
Maybe when I was 12…
-
I had those feelings when i was a teen. Never anymore though. Masturbation is just a bodily function. Porn just helps it go faster. Just be yourself. You are normal.
-
Not in the same way. I'm upset because I've never had a boyfriend at 2 years old and I'm watching this good looking guy I don't have a snowball chance in hell being with happy with his body and getting off.
-
I only felt like that till I was about 14yo… but not anymore, no.
-
It's rare for me, but I've seen memes about that feeling with numerous likes, and I think everyone feels that way at some point.
If it's some photo or video a naughty faraway friend did specially for me, that's always a good time, so that's what I prefer to jack off to. Just to be safe lol. Occasionally I feel guilty after watching porn I just found lying around the Internet, so I thought maybe I'm picking up on some bad vibes like a model who already regretted their decision but were going through with it anyway because they were really desperate for money, but I've felt bad after certain erotic stories too, so I don't fuckin' know lol.
My other best guesses are maybe I thought it was a waste of time or semen, or maybe like Wednesday when I popped a boner just a short time after I found out Debbie Reynolds passed away I felt inconsiderate.
-
Nope, but then I've had a lot of years at it
-
Yes, but not always.
Sometimes, when I was too horny, I could jerk off like 4 or 5 times by day and not feeling bad bc I'm ok with leaving my own cum dry over my skin. And it didn't felt wrong when I shared it on a naughty Twitter account I have (pics of before and after cum). But, to be completely honest, there were days when I felt bad and pathetic after cumming. These days were also the ones when I cried while watching porn, which is even stranger bc I dont cry that much, not even with “sad movies”.
So, you could say that my situation was 50/50 = 50% joy / 50% regret. I wrote “was” bc I quit masturbation since 9th of this month. I want to wait to cum inside someone else mouth or ass (the right bf hasn't come to me yet).
-
I never felt "disgusted" about porn.
I grew up in a house where sex wasn't treated as a bad thing.
-
I never felt "disgusted" about porn.
I grew up in a house where sex wasn't treated as a bad thing.
Disgust can have different meanings.
No I know porn viewing is normal.
But to some people, "You're so deviant and ugly you can't get a partner you have to watch a porno"
-
sometimes i do, sometimes i don't.It depends on my mood.
-
i do from time to time, but i want to say it was worst in the past. i've like learned to think around it.
for me it's the times when my "sessions" of porn and jerking off seem to escalate, and an idea i've read about somewhere is that the shame/guilt comes from a sense of losing control? i can actually sort of relate it to times when i've binged on food and such like it's a similar thing.
another theory is that it's just pure hormones, because sex is all about dopamine - that the shame/guilt basically just is feeling the drastic dip after that intense peak u know?
anyways i'm with you and i bet a lot of other guys are too lol
-
yes I do and not because of the porn. I feel bad after masturbating because it's not healthy for me. it feels good when I do it once in a while totally worth it and satisfying with no bad effects, but when I keep doing it for a few days I feel so ashamed because it makes me always tired, lazy also makes my sight weaker and my face looks older and more important it makes my hair falls out which is always scary for me and don't tell me I'm not eating well because I eat like a pig and take vitamins. I don't know how it's not officially proven yet that masturbating isn't healthy but it is for me and I can see the big difference to my mood,face and hair when I stop for a couple of weeks and that's why I feel bad after I do it.
-
I am in a long-distance long-term monogamous relationship, and my partner and I decided that it's better to masturbate to porn than having one night stands with strangers.
I don't feel disgusted afterwards; however, even when I thought "I'm so horny I will do it twice," after I finally cum, I immediately clean up.
The funny thing is, when I watch porn, I find that the actors don't matter to me anymore, but the audio. When I tried to watch it without sound, it took me way longer to cum. But when I just listen to the audio, not even watching it, I finish way quicker.
Maybe it's just me.
-
It seems like every time I masturbate to porn, I feel a sense of disgust after I climax.
It's like this:
I'm horny and I want to watch some porn. My emotions are positive as I start masturbating…I'm enjoying myself...It feels good...I continue to feel great until I climax. After cumming, my feelings/thoughts turn completely 180 degrees...I feel disgusted, ashamed, dirty, like I did something wrong.Anybody else feel this way or used to? How do you stop these negative feelings?
I know this feeling..
:cheesy2:
-
yes I do and not because of the porn. I feel bad after masturbating because it's not healthy for me. it feels good when I do it once in a while totally worth it and satisfying with no bad effects, but when I keep doing it for a few days I feel so ashamed because it makes me always tired, lazy also makes my sight weaker and my face looks older and more important it makes my hair falls out which is always scary for me and don't tell me I'm not eating well because I eat like a pig and take vitamins. I don't know how it's not officially proven yet that masturbating isn't healthy but it is for me and I can see the big difference to my mood,face and hair when I stop for a couple of weeks and that's why I feel bad after I do it.
whoever downvote me has issues! I'm talking about my own experience and my own feelings it's not your fucking business to dislike it.
-
IF there was something bad regarding masturbation I'm pretty sure the world's male population would be dying before they reached adulthood.
(And no, I'm not the one who downvoted your comment)
Truth is society has made people feel bad regarding self-pleasure and porn. From the youth days due to religious or moral codes to the adult days where some people regard the use of pornography and masturbation as unfitting. Some examples:
If you're an adult, you don't need porn anymore, you can just hook up with someone.
Wanking off alone is for losers. Studs get full on sex.
Partners who feel bad when the other one uses porn to jerk off because they think they're unable to completely satisfy them. ( I think this one is prone to happen more in heterosexual relations)
-
@Eridanos I understand and I was talking about my own experience not in general. I know guys who jerk off every single day with no bad effects at all. but unfortunately for me it's unhealthy I wish my body can handle it everyday ;D anyway I answered the OP question with my own personal reason. I wasn't trying to make anyone feels bad about masturbation.
