Who would you prefer to tell first, mother or father?
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Tell them both at the same time - you might create some argument between them if you tell one parent first and you force that parent to have a secret too.
And telling both gives them the opportunity to talk about it.
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mother
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both at the same time. I know my father's ok with it and my mother's unsure so they might help each other out and hopefully just leave me be
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father. Both are drunk homophobes. But my mother is psychotic, dumb as dirt and devoid of compassion for others.
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my father was never really there for me so i would say mother
