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      revenger last edited by

      I decided to come out to one of my friends last week, he's totally str8 but he is open-minded and  he's got a case of a gay guy in family… but surprisingly he acted bizarre saying i was bullshitting him and that he wouldn't believe because im manly as fuck and play soccer much better then him! i felt like exploding inside, i didn't even sleep the night before and that motherfucker was there giving any shit and making jokes about it! them i decided to say that i was actually playing and quit talking. That was bad... felt awful 😕 😕

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        WackyRabbit last edited by

        If he did not believe you, this is not your fault, it's his.  What does playing soccer better than him or more "manly" than him have to do with it.  Do not sweat about it, you told him and he knows.  Either he accepts you as who you are, or he was never really a true friend. Go on with your life, never let anyone put you down and never allow anyone to get to you like this.  You are who you are and be pride of yourself. First of all, love yourself, respect yourself….do not worry what others have to say for they do not support or feed you.  You are the only one that you need to answer to in the mirror everyday.  You were honest with him, let him deal with his issues for they are not yours.  Be pride of Revenger........  He probably did not know how to react to his friend and more or less laugh it out and make stupid comments for he was in shock.

        Remember me with smiles and laughter
        For that's how I will remember you all
        For if you can only remember with tears
        Then please don't remember me at all.

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          alfie4030 last edited by

          gave me the laughs! but in my own opinion, there are many possible outcome to that situation but I'm just going to stick to my own perspective; everybody will just thought of it as a joke at first but after some time, the other party will think about it and get conscious of his own actions.  first is that he might take it seriously and leave u, second is that he might take it seriously and maybe he will fall eventually?? ahaha third is that he will take it seriously and will say to remain friends. BUT BEING FRIENDS AFTER A CONFESSION IS REALLY HARD! it's either accept it or forget we're even friends. thats my opinion…

          BUT I SALUTE YOUR BRAVERY not many people can do that ! GOOD LUCK ON UR LOVE LIFE MISTER 😄

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