Is it possible to have a relationship with someone that's purely about sex?
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As in having a purely physical relationship? sex only
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I think so. We started that way. But at same time we had something more between us…. :hug:
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i get this question a lot in my counselling sessions .a relationship based on pure sex is a misnomer , it cant be classed as a relationship to begin with
thats just a sex buddy ( or to use the vernacular fuck friend or fuck buddy )
for a bond to move beyond the lust stage it needs trust honesty and objectivity a relationship needs substance and a secure foundation to succeed and more often than not a sex based level of "relationship " just doesn't have the bricks and mortar to last the distance , thats not to say that a sex only agreement doesn't work but usually the underlying problem with relationships based on physical appearance and sex is that when they( the two parties involved ) realise that they have nothing in common beyond the bedroom they eventually become bored with each other and move on. intimacy with another person requires much more than the single layer that a sex based agreement can give.and its sex and pure sexual attraction that people often mistake for multi layered intimacy that usually ends what you thought was a good thing. -
As in having a purely physical relationship? sex only
I think you need to define the type of relationship you are questioning.
Can two people get together do nothing but have sex all the time. Yes. It that a relationship. Yes
Can two people enter a "Domestic Relationship" that is only based on sex. Sure, will the relationship last. Sure. Will it be healthy, I would have my doubts.
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I can't speak for anyone but myself. A "relationship" purely about sex has never worked for me and I don't think it will. It all depends on what the person means by "relationship." If you're talking about a long-term healthy relationship, then I don't think pure sex will cut it. If you're talking about a sexual relationship with someone you respect and who respects you, it could work.. but again that's a "sexual relationship" and not a long-term relationship.
Different strokes for different folks…
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Of course it is! Why not?
But I think it's better when it develops to something more… like a friendship with benefits. But that's just my personal preference. -
I think it is possible, but its a little bit inhuman in a harsh way. I mean, people made not only from flesh and bone, but a heart also.
