Please help me with this poll about being gay men.
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When young and naive, I thought my attraction to men meant that I was supposed to be a woman. I didn't know that there were other options. So glad that I found that there are men who simply love men! I love my dick too much to give it up!
That's the way I feel, I like my body and my boy parts, but I sometimes feel like it would be easier for me to live if I were born a woman, so once in a while I fantasize about the thought what if I were a woman. I hope you folks get my idea :lolp:
I feel the same. While I do love taking it passively–especially from hung transformers, I've never felt an overwhelming desire to be female. Sure I have an imagination, and when I was younger I felt like I should of been born a girl, but I think puberty provided my male pride.
While I'd still like to try drag for fun, I feel I'm far too masculine and sexist to even make an attempt at a convincing female persona.
NO. I LOVE being a MAN who loves MEN. I have NO desire to be a women, to be treated as one, or to be with one (again). But of course I respect those who feel otherwise.
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@DAB:
Definitely do not want to be a woman. This board admin must be looking for an explanation for his sexuality too hard - in the wrong place.
Actually, that's what most of us on the politics forum said.
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I am a man who loves men and I like to be a real man, having a penis, and the chance to have sex with other men (straight, bi, or gay).
I always think of myself as a man not a woman, even if I'm drunk.
As for Chastity/Chaz: he had problems to accept herself/himself. It was a really huge medical problem, not only a doubt as in "I feel myself a man or a woman".
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no, I would never want to be a woman. for one, I was never attracted to women, so maybe i'm also thinking that i wouldn't be an attractive woman, either hehehe.
I would say that anyone who enjoys F-ing a guy can't possibly think he's a woman trapped in a man's body. If you ask me, only pure bottoms might be fantasizing about becoming a woman, but this is just a conjecture on my part. no offense intended.
this post is an opinion generated by the user on the left. it is not the opinion of the makers, owners, or administrators of this site. hehehe
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I've had thoughts of being a woman, but usually only in a perverted fantasy in order to get into a straight guy's pants :lolp:
In all reality though, it would never happen. I am the way I am and nothing more. That being said though, I cannot say that it is fair to say the same for everyone else. There are some people out there who either want to or actually do go through the process of getting a sex change.
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for me, i don't feel like a woman stuck in a mans body, i am very happy to be a man
However, and this is where it gets confusing for me, i actually enjoy dressing as a woman sometimes. for me when i am dressed in drag i still don't feel like a woman, i feel like a man who is confident in himself enough to show some side of my personality that is repressed by the typical image of what a man should be. Its more about Freedom of expression and not about convincing the world i am something that i clearly am not (Not that there is a problem with that if that is what you are trying to do)
If i think i look good in lipstick, and i feel like i might want to be pretty today, why should i not be allowed to feel true to myself. (True to My Image, which may or may not be a womans image at that particular time)I guess what i am trying to say is that its not that i consider myself to be a woman, but that i consider (or at least hope/wish) that i am outside of conventional/stereotypical images of how a Man, or woman, should behave. I don't want to be a man. I don't want to be a woman. I don't really even want to be Human. I just want to be Me, and I want to be Free and Beautiful
That is probably just me though
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Hell no. I'm a man and wouldn't have it any other way. :}
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I like being a man in a man's body that loves men. I do look on women with envy over the endless supply of straight men available to them.
I do fantasize sometimes and try to imagine the experience of being penetrated and filled up with a man's dick. Getting fucked up the ass is not really the same thing. -
The poll is almost offensive. Almost.
There is a big difference between sexual attraction and gender-identity.
I'm a man, I am gay, I am married, I am a working professional, I like porn, I like to jerk off frequently, and I'm a whole lot of other things. Just being attracted to a man and enjoying sex with a man doesn't make me any less of a man, or make me question my gender identity.
There are men/women trapped in the wrong bodies or have a question with their own identity, but what does that have to do with sucking a cock, sexing up a guy, fucking his hot hole or getting fucked?
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:true: :true: that was a little graphic but I agree especially because I for one like both genders but i don't question my own gender
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That's a big FAT NO!!! And if you ask that again …
I'M GOING TO KNOCK YOU OUT! :spank2:
Ok, so your saying that some guy, who is an ADMIN on this site actually made that dumb ass statement ??? It doesn't make any sense. I'm bettin this 'person' is probably actually a WOMAN :blond: posing as a GAY MAN working on a GAY PORN SITE! Cause really NO GAY MAN would ever think or say something like that. And whomever this person is, he/she better come round here to this forum and give us all an exclamation on where that kind of thinking is coming from. And, if it isn't a DAMN GOOD Explanation, then I'm going to do the above to him! (see message in RED!) and I'm going to also KICK him in the NUTS while he's down, :balls2: just for being so STUPID! And for the hell of it, I'm thinking of :anal2:ing him like the WOMEN :blond: that he probably is!
Ok, is that graphic enough for ya! He has no business saying something like that. And it pisses me OFF!
And, as for me … I like the way 'fresnopup' put it …. It sums up my thinking perfectly ...
**I like being a man in a man's body that loves men. …. **
I'm a GAY Man, proud of it! :hapgay:
And if I could do it again, I'd come back as a GAY MAN too every time! Only, each time, I'll do it a little differently and I'm pretty sure I'm going to have a lot more FUN Doing IT! :cool2:
I can't even imagine myself EVER enjoying a NAKED WOMAN! (OH GOD, I don't want to image them, I don't want to touch them, or even look at pictures of them! YUK! :afr: ) The female body just doesn't do a thing for me, and I figured that out at a very earlier age. When your DICK gets HARD every time you see a beautiful, muscular, naked man with a HARD DICK of his own, you pretty much can call yourself GAY! and then go with it! It's been my experience that sex with a man is a hell of a lot of FUN :jaj: I just can't understand why there are people out there that think it's a bad thing? But we won't go there …. :ot:
If wasn't for the whole 'reproductive' thing and the fact that there does seem to be some men out there that actually get off on having sex with women (And I'm not going to get into a discussion about the other group of guys who are truly are BiSexual - cause they do have the best of both worlds and that's a good thing too, I guess.) Well to all the women in the world I'd liked to say; "To hell with you! Get out of my life! I can't love ya and I certainly can't live with you." Yea, … that's how much I certainly don't feel like a women in a man's body. …. There's just something about being in the company of men - gay or straight -that is just so mush more enjoyable then it is when with women. We all know that the other sex just doesn't think the same way men do. It confuses me almost on a daily basis when I try to figure them out, and why do they think the way they do? YES, "Men are from MARS", and I cool with that! And Women … well, I just don't know where they are from.
Ok, I've said my peace. When, you get to know me, you'll figure out that I just can't seem to keep my thoughts down to 1 or 2 sentences. :pleasant: I'm a talker and a writer ... OK! LIVE WITH IT! And this topic (Poll) just hit me the wrong way, I had to jump on the soap box for a bit. Anyway, I am looking forward to following this thread and seeing if the "ADMIN" idiot ever does shows up. We'll see, I guess.
Be readin' ya … and ...
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The person IS NOT on this site, at least not that I know of. As I said in the opening post, he's the admin of a politics discussion site. I've "internet known" him for about 15 years and he's always proclaimed to be a gay man. He's long had some weird ideas.
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The person IS NOT on this site, at least not that I know of. As I said in the opening post, he's the admin of a politics discussion site. I've "internet known" him for about 15 years and he's always proclaimed to be a gay man. He's long had some weird ideas.
OH - I guess that makes a difference. And the results of the poll pretty much says it all doesn't it.
BTW - when I posted that ranting, I did not realalize it was such an OLD posting and poll. So now I kind of feel like a fool for ranting so harshly on a 4+ year old topic. :blind: