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    Did you choose to be gay?

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      Minerboh80 last edited by

      @parsek:

      EPIC FAIL!
      This is the most stupid question ever! if you have some doubt about your own personality you really need mind help, then what are you still doing in this forum?
      Be gay is not a choice it is on DNA, end of chat!

      Couldn't agrre more.

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        kwe4r last edited by

        Is that even a question? lol

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          harrisbren last edited by

          Hey, the guy did ask a question. I don't know if he was being ironic or something but it's in the "Chit Chat" section. Maybe he just wanted to start a conversation.

          I bite ;)

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            Minerboh80 last edited by

            Also a fact.

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              raphjd Forum Administrator last edited by

              @parsek:

              EPIC FAIL!
              This is the most stupid question ever! if you have some doubt about your own personality you really need mind help, then what are you still doing in this forum?
              Be gay is not a choice it is on DNA, end of chat!

              This question, when posted, was right on topic due to that nasty lesbian saying that we (LGBTS) choose to be gays because we want to be anti social.

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                zulfarrakk last edited by

                Definitely no, it's not a choice  😉

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                  Masonmason last edited by

                  I think we choose to act on our attractions I also believe I could be content in a platonic marriage with a woman but I'm glad of the times that I do not have to be. In short I don't think we choose to feel attractions to our own gender but I do believe that we choose to act on that attraction.  I do not however think its genetic or at least it can't entirely be genetic (see twins  one gay one not).

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                    Bisougarou last edited by

                    They still haven't proved that being gay is in our DNA… But I, too, don't believe it's a choice.
                    A lot of animal species have "gay sex" but most animals can't reason therefor they can't choose to be be gay or "have gay sex" it's just the way it is.

                    There are lots of theories about why/how do you become gay? Unfortunately, no one can answer simply this question. There are almost as many theories as there are gays/bi/lesbians...

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                      jrsite55 last edited by

                      I think I was born this way lol

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                        horyna last edited by

                        No, I did not.

                        I have two older sisters. They made me gay. 😄

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                          ricardok250 last edited by

                          No. I just love male wear white socks. But not sex and being gay

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                            Belisarios last edited by

                            No, did not choose to be gay but certainly would not choose to be straight.

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                              nordicblue last edited by

                              @Belisarios:

                              No, did not choose to be gay but certainly would not choose to be straight.

                              Why wouldn't you want to be straight?  They are a supermajority in number and political power.  It is much easier to find a straight mate.  Although I do not care either way, I prefer to have both.

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                                clubzfanboy last edited by

                                @nordicblue:

                                @Belisarios:

                                No, did not choose to be gay but certainly would not choose to be straight.

                                Why wouldn't you want to be straight?  They are a supermajority in number and political power.  It is much easier to find a straight mate.  Although I do not care either way, I prefer to have both.

                                Personally I wouldn't want to be straight because being gay makes me sympathize with an understand all manner of minority orientations/identities that I might have dismissed as crazy or gross otherwise.

                                Plus, frankly, being in the majority seems boring!

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                                  cumpigboy last edited by

                                  @Masonmason:

                                  I think we choose to act on our attractions I also believe I could be content in a platonic marriage with a woman but I'm glad of the times that I do not have to be. In short I don't think we choose to feel attractions to our own gender but I do believe that we choose to act on that attraction.  I do not however think its genetic or at least it can't entirely be genetic (see twins  one gay one not).

                                  I probably agree with 98% of what Masonmason said.  I was going to post that we do not choose who we are attracted to, it just…is.  In regards to genetics, within nature, homosexual attraction and behavior is common in many species of higher order mammals such as dolphins and even varied other species.  Humans have become used to suppressing and constraining themselves to however the establishment dictates humans should view each other and contribute to society.  I'm sort of digressing a bit, but that's why we have all these questions because we're so used to holding our real selves and soul inspiration back to fit in with the norm of the system.

                                  Also, if it were a choice, a lot of people have said they would have chosen to be straight because it's easier, which is true cause it's what society expects.

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                                    harrisbren last edited by

                                    @horyna:

                                    No, I did not.

                                    I have two older sisters. They made me gay. 😄

                                    LOL. I have two younger sisters. They made me gay. 😄

                                    I bite ;)

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                                      AndrewH last edited by

                                      i haven't yet

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                                        zhx1991 last edited by

                                        No.

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                                          uzuzjh last edited by

                                          no, coz im in the matrix

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                                            spam17 last edited by

                                            Not sure if I will..

                                            👼

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