Cocksucking – Why?

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My question about rent boy culture and discussion of our recent past, has apparently drawn no response at all so far. There are rentboy movies on this site, one of which is at this moment a FreeLeech documentary torrent. Maybe everyone is ashamed to let on they have any idea what I was asking about.

Fine. Be that way.

Now, riddle me this. Today, there is a "Suck Dick, Save the World" torrent up for FreeLeech at
    https://www.gaytorrent.ru/details.php?id=973fd40d8820f54a721e650ad4175fa32d324ebccd928a15 .

The description says, in part:

" For a true cocksucker, his mouth is an extension of the cock he's worshiping. The cock and the mouth are two parts of a perfect
male sex organ, each incomplete without the other. Connecting mouth and cock is the essential step, a basic fact of life for a man–-
like breathing and eating, a man has to suck or be sucked. It's a basic necessity, a male human right. And because it's a necessity,
it's political. Hence SUCK DICK / SAVE THE WORLD. Around the world, men are arrested and fucked with by police and religious
zealots simply because they do what a man's gotta do: get down on his knees and make the mouth-dick connection that keeps us
all alive and sane."

Guess we can tell what HE is passionate about. But is that just his idiosyncratic take on the matter, or is that widespread? Is it true
that "a man has to suck or be sucked"? Sex is a basic necessity, but only and particularly in that form? Hmm.

At best, all I know is how I feel, and I claim no special self-awareness. Also, feelings shift. But I have long been curious what it is
that motivates those who like to suck. Often those who penetrate are not interested in being penetrated, and vice versa. Surely the
evolutionary drive for preserving the species has to do with spreading fertile, abundant manseed as easily, pleasurably, and frequently
as possible, including actual m/f breeding, of course, but not limited to that. But what's up with those who just want the seed, not
to spread their own?

Some may fetishize the semen as having medical and spiritual healing properties. Recent articles in the general media talk about it
as an ideal face conditioner, an ingredient for recipes and cocktails, a boost to self-esteem, a tranquilzing drug wherever applied, etc.
Whatever. But there are also cocksuckers who go for the gusto and then spit it right out. What's the point of that? If you don't like
the taste or want to swallow, put a rubber on it and then you can claim your lips have never touched a dick.

Is it just the excitement of a man's climax, the sound and taste and smell of it? The intense convulsions, geyser eruption or drool, the
ragged, frantic breathing as pelvic rhythms grow erratic? A feeling of love or other emotional connection, perhaps the tightening balls,
the ultimate swelling of the shaft and gaping of the engorged cyclops eye and the way it leaks and releases its tension? Perhaps a
tender stroking of the head or gentle holding of the ears?

I don't know at all. It bemuses and baffles me to want to suck, to create an orgasm for a man through some mutual effort, a sort of
Vulcan mindmeld, where each feels the ecstasy of the other, equal parts of a whole. The conspiracy-- con spirare, to breath with--
of that effort. The concentrated attention, undiverted by 69 or other watering down of attention. Was it just poor weaning that makes
some people so intensely oral?

And are blowjobs "real sex" or, as shown in many movies, only a warm up to actually intimate sex acts involving penetration elsewhere?

Guys like to cum and need to cum, and most people don't get to do it nearly as often as they would like. Even with a partner, a man may
find he is eager to know more often in a night than his wife, gf, or bf. As an infamous activist once put it, "There's not a boy out there
who doesn't need a blowjob right now." And fortunately, there are people willing and even eager to provide that service. Again, I'm
baffled as to why, because it need not be prep for anal submission or to encourage anal submission by a thoughtful top preparing his
way for the greatest pleasure of all.

The human connection, touch, even if anonymous, even if the sucker may be male or female or is assumed to be female but ain't (ha
ha ha, what a good joke on the allegedly naive strait guy, huh?), is valuable and meaningful. Some fall in love with the cock and its owner
for at least as long as the act takes.

I dunno, I dunno. Lots of women hate male fluids and sucking hairy (or shaved) dicks. Okay, so they do not have one, do not know the
feeling, maybe are not as good at going down on a man as men might be (not that I believe all men suck better than all women). Even
they may like having a man go down on them and marinate in their juices-- just won't return the favor. Which is where a man can be
useful and satisfactory and quick in event of a horndog emergency at, say, the wrong time of month.

But none of this mumbling makes it any more clear to me why shoving my lips down a man's swollen shaft and bobbing against his
public bone while his bell end gets deeply massaged, and how hands and lips and varied motions of sliding and stimulating from end
to end... why should that be an obsession?

And to what extent is the video description, quoted above, in line with your knowledge and experience?