Straight Boyfriend
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i totally understand as i have a straight male friend who i am practicly dating however its never sexual. idk maybe you guys are just like surogate boyfriends like its totally legit to have a non sexual but super super close relationship with him. maybe just like tell him how you feel tho.
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Rickydrexel, do you have any updates?
[/quoteHey everyone, sorry it's been so long since my last update but soooooo much has gone on since the last time i posted. I took the advice and finally had the talk with him about how I was feeling, and his initial reply was " I always knew you liked me, you just always act tough when you get around people." Then he said "I tried talking to you about it so many times but we were both drunk and this is something i'd rather talk to you face to face about." So not really sure whats going to happen there but I will see him in person again in the beginning of the year. Now, onto the new craziness in my life. Shortly after that conversation I was contacted by his mentor who told me that he had heard I had a crush on him (the mentor) and wanted to have sex with me to see if it was something that he was into. Obviously if you want to have sex with a man it's something that you're into right? But anyways this guy is HOT, and someone I always wanted to hook up with but the problem is that we're all friends, and on top of that he's married. Mind you I was supposed to go and do this in November, but funds were low, and the more I thought about it the more awkward I felt about it. Not sure if i'm going to do it, but i'm starting to feel like I have a sign on my head that says confused straight men only. And he's not the only one. What do you guys think?
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I'm not going to even touch that one. I would just try to forget about the "mentor." Mentor's shouldn't be fucking the people involved with th ones they're helping. Not in my humble opinion anyway. There are tons of other hot fish in the sea to play with rather than getting yourself into an even muddier situation. Do you really care about this guy? Stay away from the horizontal mambo with the hot mentor and figure things out with your boy friend first. Then if it doesn't pan out, spread your fins and find another (hopefully more stable) fish. Just my humble opinion.