Ever been with a guy gets off on not cumming?
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Met a real nice guy the other day and it looks like we'll be regular pals. The sex was good, but after I came he was still rock hard. I went down to suck him and he stopped me and said he doesn't like to cum! We cuddled and hugged and kissed for what seemed like a half hour after that and he was hard the entire time; every time I attempted to release him he only let me go so far. We went to take a shower and he fucked me in the ass, but still didn't cum (I did a second time, though). Anyone ever been with a guy like this?
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I know that often after I cum then that's it, all sense of horniness has gone. For this reason, when I'm out having horny fun, I try to hold back from cumming so I can enjoy my time out till the end. However, if at home or at a friend's house and having sex, I wouldn't hold back as cumming is all part of it, as is the cuddling, kissing and spooning afterwards. In those situations, as you pointed out about yourself, after a short time the horniness has returned as well as a recharge within the balls.
I've often come across others saying, as I often do, "I don't want to cum yet", but that's just at that moment in time rather than not wanting to cum at all. I've never come across anyone who simply just doesn't want to cum at any point. That would be odd, but I guess he must have a reason for it that he's uncomfortable to talk about. In that case, I wouldn't press him for explanations as it may disturb a hornet's nest I couldn't cope with. There could be all kinds of psychological issues best left to a pro to deal with. If he wants to talk about it he will if he can, in which case it's his decision so no harm done. Still, him not cumming wouldn't put me off as long as we were both enjoying ourselves.
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I'm usually ok with not cumming if for example i wanked for a couple of times that day.. so i don't wana make the guy blow me for an hour to make me cum ill just say that im ok… ill go on being hard and horny but i won't be able to cum easy so its no biggie cause the sex still feels awesome even if i don't bust at the end
but if he stops you always might be how jagged said, there are guys that after they come they turn instantly straight :)) happened to me a couple of times to simply lose even the mood to hug or anything after i came -
Met a real nice guy the other day and it looks like we'll be regular pals. The sex was good, but after I came he was still rock hard. I went down to suck him and he stopped me and said he doesn't like to cum! We cuddled and hugged and kissed for what seemed like a half hour after that and he was hard the entire time; every time I attempted to release him he only let me go so far. We went to take a shower and he fucked me in the ass, but still didn't cum (I did a second time, though). Anyone ever been with a guy like this?
Yes, it's not usual, but I've been with one that ALWAYS have this "routine", and with other that only sometimes. There's also another theory, this guy is under a medication that makes him this side effects (like antidepressives) and he's ashamed about that.
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Thanks for the input guys. I suppose as I get to know him more he'll explain this in greater detail
I definitely relate to the notion of feeling uninterested after cumming, but I usually fight that feeling because I know it will subside after about 5 or 10 minutes.
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"Gets off on not cumming" is an oxymoron
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at least he's getting you off and you're both having fun
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I can't imagine "getting off" without cumming…
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That's a first for me… I am a bottom and sometimes I do not cum the first time the top cums, so that there is a second time. However, I "demand" for us both to cum.
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I am not too keen on cuming anymore.
Teenage boys are like water taps ON - Off -On again (and they don't care, don't know and do not have to.)
I really enjoy long time sessions and multiple orgasms (mostly DRY orgasms) and I can go on and on.
That's just the way I like it most.
Of course, at some point I will cum,
but it may even be the next day…If somebody is very keen on sperm eating and watching the fountain
he may be disappointed. But learning to be patient is a good thing,
not only in sex...Be Horny - Be Happy
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if i'm with a guy who only goes for 15 minutes i'll often hold off…
