Attitudes toward body hair
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How does everyone here feel about body hair? On yourself, on others. Where do and don't you like it? Does it make a difference what body type the person is? Would you ask/have you asked a partner to remove it from an area before? If you started dating a guy and their body hair pattern wasn't what you were into, but you were into the guy and saw potential otherwise, do you think you'd stick with them and maybe eventually communicate that or would you end it to avoid an awkward conversation? Or does the presence or lack of body hair not matter to you at all? I am very interested in hearing people's opinions. Please elaborate as much as possible.
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i really dont mind body hair. It does depend on the guy itself though. The only place where it might bother me is on his back. But there also only if it is really a lot. I dont like that. I always feel it looks unclean . But thats just me i guess.
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I'm ok with guys being naturally unhairy but I prefer hairy men. Shaved is a turn-off.
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Body hair is a huge turn-on for me. Back, shoulders, ass; it's all good. I guess body type can made a little difference; a big, beefy guy without hair is usually hotter than a skinny or obese guy without hair. Nothing is set in stone, though. If I like a guy (or he's really cute :P) lack of body hair isn't a big deal.
I'm not very hairy myself, and sometimes wish I had more than I do. I don't let it get to me, though. As long as other guys are into me, I'm happy.
I wouldn't ask someone to shave it (or stop shaving it) unless maybe they were already considering it. Probably because I wouldn't want them to ask me to do so, either.
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its cultural thing.. where countries where its not used to hairy men, then hairy men is a turn off
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Aha. Thanks for all the replies guys.
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Body hair is a huge turn-on for me. Back, shoulders, ass; it's all good. I guess body type can made a little difference; a big, beefy guy without hair is usually hotter than a skinny or obese guy without hair. Nothing is set in stone, though. If I like a guy (or he's really cute :P) lack of body hair isn't a big deal.
I'm not very hairy myself, and sometimes wish I had more than I do. I don't let it get to me, though. As long as other guys are into me, I'm happy.
I wouldn't ask someone to shave it (or stop shaving it) unless maybe they were already considering it. Probably because I wouldn't want them to ask me to do so, either.
I'm of the same inclination (the first part of the three above). I find it really interesting to learn what people are into and why. Some, including myself, are attracted to any male secondary sexual characteristic of which one is body hair. For others attraction may be guided by cultural norms or what's popular in mainstream media at present. Sometimes, people would have aversions to certain physical traits if they've had a negative experience with someone who possessed that same physical trait. And the reasons go on and on. Very interesting stuff!
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No bodyhair for me, i shave and used laser around my cock, balls and ass. Hurt like hell, but worth it. My husband is hairy and i like to feel his hairy body against me.
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I can appreciate a hairy and a less hairy or hairless body. Doesn't change how attractive they are to me. But, I do tend to have times where I prefer hairy over not.
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hairy or smooth, its all good.
for me tho, i trim my crack and crotch and thats about it
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It depends, if his body hair keeps me from wanting to be intimate with him, but I really like him - I'd ask him to shave. Body hair can grow back with time, it's not like I'd be asking him to remove a limb or something. But I like body hair on certain men, in certain areas of the body. I don't mind a guy with hairy legs, hairy ass, or arms. The areas I'm particular about are the chest/stomach area and the shoulders and back. I see nothing attractive about a hairy back or shoulders. I wouldn't be interested in a guy with all of that going on regardless of what his body type is. Hair to that extent, is unsightly to me. Chest hair can be quite attractive to me, but only on a toned or muscular chest. Not impressed with "happy trails" or extreme ware-wolves types. I dated a guy whose physical shape wasn't the best - but i genuinely enjoyed his company and personality. We had sex, but most of the time it was initiated by him, because I wasn't physically attracted to him. He wasn't hairy though. Physical attraction for me is important, because without it i'd feel like I'd be wasting both my time and the other person. So it's important to find someone who loves you for you, and you don't have to change anything about yourself just to please them. BUT…small sacrifices are also a good thing to consider, if you truly want to be with that person. JMO