Where is the best place to meet other HIV guys for more than just sex?
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I haven't long been HIV+ and I'm hoping it doesn't ruin the chances of actually meeting someone nice. I know that my options are limited as some people have a issue with even dating a guy who is positive.
I've come to the conclusion it is best finding someone else in the same situation as me and hopefully hitting it off but I am finding it hard to find other guys. Does anyone know of a site or a way of finding other guys for relationships and dates :hug:
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One of my mates has been positive for many years now and he was before he met his negative partner. 15+ years later they are still together and the negative guy is still negative and very much in love with him. They met one night on the scene, and it went from there, my mate was straight up from day 1 about his status which I think made a big impact on the trust between them. So never give up hope on finding someone pos or neg, just be honest from the start.
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You don't necessarily need to look for other positive guys. Many HIV+s date negs. I am HIV+ and my bf is neg. He knows I'm +, he's completely fine with that and we love each other! :hug:
If you want to date someone he will love you and accept you regardless of anything. What I'm telling you is this: don't freak out about that… It's not because you are now HIV+ that all your sex or relationship possibilities have become limited to other HIV+s. Allow yourself to try and date anyone like you have probably always done and if someone shows any problem on dating you because of that, well... I tell you what: great! Because you will know he's not the right guy for you. -
One of my mates has been positive for many years now and he was before he met his negative partner. 15+ years later they are still together and the negative guy is still negative and very much in love with him. They met one night on the scene, and it went from there, my mate was straight up from day 1 about his status which I think made a big impact on the trust between them. So never give up hope on finding someone pos or neg, just be honest from the start.
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