all in the family
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Society says it's wrong but consensual incest gets me going like nothing else.
I've never been attracted to anyone in my own family, disgusted in fact, except for maybe one cousin who I've only seen photos of and never met in person.
But the idea of there being guys out there having sex with the men in their own family is a huge turn on.My personal ranking:
- twins
- brothers
- father/son
- uncle/nephew/cousins
I hope to one day have a threesome with twins - I'd even settle for just brothers. I also fantasize having a boyfriend/husband and inviting his brother to join us on occasion.
What's the psychology of this?
I remember reading a comment thread somewhere that used the term "phantom father", not an actual father but a paternal stand-in of sorts.I've also spent a lot of time consuming internet porn and I suppose part of it is finding that taboo to get the same "high" as just seeing any ol' dick like when I first starting using porn.
Sometimes I feel like I should seek therapy to get out of this mindset... but it's just so erotic. A father balls deep in his willing son's ass, a son sucking the sperm from the penis he came out of, brother's getting to know each other more physically.
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The pyschology is incest. There's plenty of books about the subject both as an historical and sexual deviation and as a form of abuse.
In terms of gay fantasy there's plenty of porn and erotica which explores daddy/son uncle/nephew, incest and twincest. I think the idea is that it remains fantasy and isn't socially transgressive. However twincest breaks that code with the famous brothers who have sex in gay porn films.
When i was young i had sexual play with my little adopted brother and his friend but only as part of pre-teen sexual exploration. (Doctors and nurses games kind of thing). I also knew two pretty brothers, one who went to university with my sister, who had had a sexual relationship but where i think one was gay and the other questioning or bi.
There are some collections of true gay stories which cover some incest but it's quite taboo. I've read one on the sex life of american farmers and that covered alot of gay incest as well as bestiality.
I suspect you do have some kind of childhood incestual desires which are repressed or undisclosed and these (which are natural btw) lie behind your interest in it as a sexual fantasy in adulthood. It's healthy to let these come to the surface and the right fantasy can help you process, manifest and see your fantasy and it's associated feelings in full.
You may also be a candidate for intergenrational relationships where you are an older male with a younger partner. This is because the intergenrational aspect contains a daddy/son-uncle/nephew aspect which taps into childhood developmental incestual desire. -
The BIG issue of incest is females getting impregnated by a male member of their family (brother, father) because that results in horrible birth defects because of double-doses of bad genetic information.
Humans have 23 pairs of chromosomes. Each pair gets half it's information from the father, and the other half from the mother. Everybody (except me) has some defective genes. However, the good genes dominate the bad ones, so the bad ones generally get ignored. BUT.. if your mother and father both have the same bad genes.. the odds of the baby getting BOTH parts of a chromosome with defective genetic information go up exponentially. This is why royalty and isolated communities are plagued with a much higher incidence of all sorts of problems such as hemophilia, retardation, missing or deformed limbs, dwarfism, etc.
That is the reason why incest is illegal, and was illegal before people even understood genetics and how babies born of close relatives had so many problems.With that said, there is no physiological reason why gay men or lesbian women should not engage in incest. In fact, I have read that 60% of identical twins have engaged in sex with each other at least once.
There is the psychological aspect of it, including being shunned by other people finding out that twins Billy and Bobby are diddling each other, but there are no physiological reasons. -
@cacho Can anybody name the president whose son was screwing his brother's wife?
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I used to regularly jerk off to nude photos I found of my Dad.
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i would never do this with my own family (so gross), but i too find these content/genre arousing. I think the reason is intimacy. i find it more intimate and less fake. i also seek out more kissing and eye contact in p0rn.
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@cacho omg thank you for the upvote. i think that's my first ever.
