Watersports in a relationship
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I have found it difficult to bring up the topic of watersports with guys that I have dated in the past. I feel like there is some stigma that goes along with it. Maybe it's just me not being completely comfortable with it. I always seem to overhear conversations about how people can do things like that. People always seem to judge what they don't understand, but I seem to be around when those conversations happen so I feel like I am a closeted watersports lover. Anyone have any helpful input here?
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I have found it difficult to bring up the topic of watersports with guys that I have dated in the past. I feel like there is some stigma that goes along with it. Maybe it's just me not being completely comfortable with it. I always seem to overhear conversations about how people can do things like that. People always seem to judge what they don't understand, but I seem to be around when those conversations happen so I feel like I am a closeted watersports lover. Anyone have any helpful input here?
My husband and i started to experiment with it as a roleplay-thing (He is top im bottom) And today we do it once in a while when we feel for it. Yes its me getting wet, and yes i drink it to
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I have found it difficult to bring up the topic of watersports with guys that I have dated in the past. I feel like there is some stigma that goes along with it. Maybe it's just me not being completely comfortable with it. I always seem to overhear conversations about how people can do things like that. People always seem to judge what they don't understand, but I seem to be around when those conversations happen so I feel like I am a closeted watersports lover. Anyone have any helpful input here?
I had similar problem with an ex, initially I would just raise the topic when sexual fetish type conversations came up, I expressed my curiosity with watersports, he didn't respond with any rejection. Eventually i got up the guts/comfort to try it in the shower with him. He didn't seem to mind and was open to it, after that we discussed it much more openly and since I was very new to it in practice we were both basically exploring it together. After actually trying a few things we both knew our comfort level with each other and watersports, it was a gradual process initially but once I knew he was responsive to it and not disgusted by the idea it was much easier to explore. I feel that watersports is very much different in a relationship than with a hook up. Hope this helps.
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I have done W/S with two men I had partnerships/relationships with. We were both into it, so that helped.
A man I dated said I could have done it to him but he only offered this once, and never mentioned it again, and it was sort of odd since he never mentioned this again or did not ever mention being into it before or after.
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nice story guys
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just talk about it, if your relationship is secure it will not mater what your partner/boy friend feels it will give you a chance to express your needs
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My actual boyfriend don't want to piss (he is a top)… He said: this will ruin our relationship....
