Coming out or not
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sometime feeling quite nervous when think of this topic
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Coming out is the scariest bravest thing you can do. Its something for you and you alone. Sometimes people will not approve and you lose friends and family but you have to remember what it is about. Its about the freedom to be you and act as you. Not live in fear and shame.
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Coming out is a very personal decision. You should come out when you feel ready for it. And you always know when you are ready for it.
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When you come out you have to be brave, but above all you have to be ready. Ready to take on the world's bullshit and to let go of people who said they love you but really they don't. It's a self-love process and when you do it you will wish you had done it sooner
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sometime feeling quite nervous when think of this topic
i grew up i guess with a family/parents that didnt worry about their sons sexual preferences–my teen years i went to school went home then went to friends houses and then sometimes they would come to my place--i would be upstairs in my room with someone door shut and no one bothered us while we were doing whatever we were doing----middle school a friend of mine and i must been seen doing stuff so guys in class mostly during gym class and between classes they would show me their asses and say wanna lick my ass or flash dicks and say they want to be next and i never understod that until my friend told me we were caught doing it and now they are picking on us---
as got older graduating from school and finding a job and i would go out to places ---i didnt drink but still went to bars to find someone--and we went to my place- which at this time i still lived with my folks--and my mom forgot to knock on the door and there i was getting pounded--she never said a word--
so basically for me i am saying i never really was in the closet--i just was who i was and my family and few friends accepted me for it--
