Advice for dealing with overly sensitive penis and being a short top?
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so I have trouble maintaining a rock hard erection during sex, and I'm 26. I really don't fool around with guys much due to only being able to climax with my hand. It's quite frustrating.
So I decided to experiment with viagra. It was pretty incredible at first because it didn't give me a boner until I was turned on by kissing. (Kissing, cuddling and body contact turns me on much more than sex)
and boy was I hard. It was amazing! But the issues I had with sex were still there, mostly being that when the guy gives me a blowjob and pulls down my foreskin it just doesn't feel good. It's this strange intense sensation that doesn't feel pleasant. It's such a powerful sensation that I need to tell them to stop or I will unintentionally give them a golden shower (which is not my cup of tea)
I don't want to get circumcised but I feel there must be a way to desensitize my dick for blowjobs and penetration. I only jerk off by gliding the foreskin up and down so I never touch my bare head when I masturbate.
The other issue I have is that the bottom I am fwb with is significantly taller than me, and has a rather thick ass. It turns me on, but…I'm having difficulty topping him because of how damn big his ass is.
Feel free to mock me but...I legit find it so difficult to get inside his ass doggystyle because of how thick he is there...and he's really only willing to do that one position..
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Don't know what to tell you on the last issue, if the guy isn't willing to try other positions. I guess don't be afraid to shove his legs apart or shove his back down if it helps, though.
On the sensitivity front, there are desensitising sprays and gels (usually designed to help you last longer). You might just try a fleshlight and lots of practise, though. Eventually, it should start feeling more and more pleasurable, especially if you make good associations with it. And pee before you play.
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Yes I'll have to look into the gels/sprays. We experimented with a fleshlight and I didn't like it because of how massive and cumbersome it was.
But yeah he's not really willing to try other positions so I'll have to just keep trying I guess or find someone else